Womaneyezer Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 I'm not saying he doesn't like you, but he is CLEARLY not ready for commitment. He is still playing the field. You're not the one....at least not now. Sorry for the news. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Holy Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 I DO NOT TRUST HIM. That is the end of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tallulah27 Posted June 6, 2014 Author Share Posted June 6, 2014 Its super clear. Thanks for all the great, and soberly honest, replies. He insists INSISTS he needs more time to figure things out and wants us to date. He feels pressured for a commitment and that things didnt "flow organically." Ill give him that. I was pressuring for exclusivity before I even knew if he was right for me. BUT he could have said I'm not ready to just date one person. Instead he lied and said he'd give it a go. This has thrown me so much. I'm a smart, fun, pretty and accomplished woman who is used to having good people in my life (I've had great boyfriends through the years). I've never been deceived like this. I just don't get why each time I kindly try to call it quits he asks to continue. I know cake and eat it too and all that. But he obviously has others. Why not just concentrate on them? What the hell?!!! He insists we have mad chemistry (and we do but who cares) and likes me alot but is not 100 percent yet. He says he needs more time. I am starting to immensely dislike him so its easier and easier to let it go. I feel really bad for him. He insists he didn't cheat but he lied and its clear he's stringing me along until Miss Right comes along or is a massive, massive commitment phobe. Anyhoo, Im back online and setting up dates. Time to find a real man!!!!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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