irc333 Posted May 23, 2014 Share Posted May 23, 2014 Sorry if this post may come off as a generalization, but I do have my experiences to go off here with a fairly decent sample size in my social circle. I have noticed something, you know how they say, if you want to meet someone try a night course, hiking/kayaking group, board game night, things of which would be rather constructive in nature and interactive. In my experience, I would tend to see average looking to fairly attractive people at these outings/events. (i.e. - Meetup). Some even cute. We'd get a once in a blue moon attractive person (male or female) show up, only to do a one-shot deal. A good friend of mine likes to put on a BBQ for his birthday, and usually holds them at a local state park. SOme of his friends reserve a Pavillion for numerous people he's invited out including myself. We play volleyball, go water skiing, jetskiin'g, you name it....all the typical summer time fun! But, something else I've noticed he has this "other" group of friends or acquaintances rather that he's known through other circles. My draw would drop at some of the women he's hang out with at either a nightspot, upscale club, or some gala event. Through the years, and this coming routine BBQ event, I decided to ask him, "Hey, you invite those lovely ladies from your Facebook page?" And he said, "I have, but...these kinds of events aren't their thing. THey just prefer the night life." Though, this does separate those that capabale of being in long term relationships vs. the superficial world of the "night life", but yeah...it's interesting that you'll see highly attractive people gather at a nightclub, lounge, or anything that involves dancing or drinking. Otherwise everything else is pretty much not their thing or rather, they may even consider it "beneath them." Anyone notice this? Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted May 23, 2014 Share Posted May 23, 2014 Why do you want him to invite them? Probably the same reason they don't want to come 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted May 23, 2014 Share Posted May 23, 2014 OP, all kinds of people attend nightspots but the beautiful ones are the ones you notice. Pretty normal stuff. Social strata demarcations are quite normal, whether they be described by looks, money, influence, power, whatever. That's life! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 I think they just have better things to do since they're beautiful, like spend time with their boyfriends or girlfriends. Basically, they may either feel they're not single or they're not interested in those activities, or they're not interested at the men they've seen through these get-togethers. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 Maybe they are too hungover to jet ski. It's called beauty sleep for a reason. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted May 24, 2014 Author Share Posted May 24, 2014 they may either feel they're not single That phrase doesn't make any sense. How can you "feel" that you're not single? Either you are single or you're not. Though, I'm not entirely sure what that has to do with the topic. Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 Everytime I read one of your threads, I am always like....WTF **** is he going to come up with tomorrow to make anohter 'OLD.....' thread based on something 'a friend' said to him. Bravo OP, I don't even know what to expect. You constantly suprise me and give me WTF moments. LOL 3 Link to post Share on other sites
angel.eyes Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 Irc, why are you complaining about how they choose to socialize? If you want to meet his beautiful friends, go hang out at this nightclub. If not, then learn to enjoy and appreciate the "homely" people who show up at these barbeques. Change you rather than whinging yet again that the whole world won't change to accommodate what you want. That hasn't brought you success. Try a different approach. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 What I meant by "feel they're not single" is they're not looking to go on singles type outings or outings with people coming they don't know, because they are able to target who they want to date. Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 Though, this does separate those that capabale of being in long term relationships vs. the superficial world of the "night life", but yeah...it's interesting that you'll see highly attractive people gather at a nightclub, lounge, or anything that involves dancing or drinking. Otherwise everything else is pretty much not their thing or rather, they may even consider it "beneath them." Anyone notice this? If they're going to do outdoorsy stuff the chances are they'll be doing extreme and/or expensive sports in exclusive locations rather than going rambling or hiking with random groups of people, wouldn't you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted May 24, 2014 Share Posted May 24, 2014 Probably because "the beautiful people" already have friends to have barbecues and go hiking with--if that is what they wanted to do that is. Now if you are so intrigued by these women, a better question for you to be asking is whether your friend would invite YOU to join him with these women at these events. Or, how did he meet these women in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
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