Darren Steez Posted June 1, 2014 Share Posted June 1, 2014 This is always a tricky question. I don't condone dishonestly, but I do believe the only one you'll make feel better with your confession, is yourself. Temporarily. Then he'll dump you - or worse, he won't dump you, but he'll never really trust you again - and you'll go on together in a terrible half-life of a relationship. If you really intend never to do it again, and you love him, then keep it to yourself. Let it be your cross to bear. If you think, in your heart of hearts, that this affair was actually a sign to yourself that you want out of the relationship, then go ahead and tell him. It'll blast a big hole in it and you can run out the side. Tend to disagree. She didn't cheat once or twice, it was ongoing, multiple times. Something is missing from her relationship with her boyfriend. 10 years together and not married? Nothing wrong with cohabitation but she was actively seeking this other guy even when he's treated her like dirt. What's to stop her from cheating again? Because I'm sure she told herself the next time the guy calls she's not going to drop everything, lie to her man and go to this other guy for a quick bang before he drops her back home again. What's to stop her the next time she's out and meets a hot guy who hits on her? FWB only works if two people are single and want sex with no strings attached. This is an affair, this is cheating. To the OP, tell the man you're with what is going on, you can work from there but it's grossly unfair you can get to take a little break and have your fun whilst he's committed to your relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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