Gambler1984 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 I'll keep this simple, we dated for almost 2 years, she moved away for grad school 1.5 years ago, terminating the relationship for that reason and then had someone new right away. Idk if it was a rebound or what, she is known for that. We stayed in touch until she had him and then I stopped talking to her because I was hurt. She would still like/comment on my FB wall, but I unsubscribed from hers and haven't looked at it or liked/commented on anything since! It sound like they had broken up twice in a 7 month period and then she began to bother me a lot more, usually via FB, but also received pics of her cat on 2 different occasions, random misc texts aka conversation starters. Out of all of my FB friends, she would like/comment on my posts way more than anyone else. People were telling me she still probably liked me and realized the grass wasn't greener on the otherside and that I should tell her how I felt about her and not ignore/play the hard to get game. Well, 7 months later, she was back with that same guy from school again. Now I know she is not here, but Idk what her intentions were with me. After I saw her back with that guy, I disabled my FB account and haven't been back since Thanksgiving time. People advised me to write her a letter, so I did. I sent it write before Christmas and it was a detailed, deep and emotional letter. I told her I had hope for a future between us like when she returns, etc. I explained why I wrote and how I felt about her. I told her that I was very proud of her for getting into a PHD program ,etc. I never have opened the email account that I sent it from since. Last Saturday I accessed my AOL account which I rarely check and there was an email from her in it and it was sent that morning too. Very bizarre I know! The subject like was "Question". I didn't open it and haven't yet because I'm nervous about rejection obviously. My gut initially said its good she has a question and is trying to communicate and sending it to my AOL must mean she probably tried the account I sent the letter from, but since I haven't opened it, she's trying other ways. Women are telling me I don't have anything to worry about and its likely a good thing in my favor to open it. I've been told if it was bad, she likely wouldn't try other email accounts or write me at all. Basically, she was begging for my attention for many months, I was ignoring her on purpose and then school guy came back into the picture. Doesn't that mean he's her future husband? Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyConnection23 Posted June 4, 2014 Share Posted June 4, 2014 The question could be something as simple as: "Why were you ignoring me for so long and then send this e-mail?" It could be anything. Just open it up and figure out what it says. If you are this concerned about opening an e-mail you probably weren't in the right spot to send it in the first place... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Share Posted June 5, 2014 Read the email and see what it says.. Link to post Share on other sites
Nimbus4dt Posted June 5, 2014 Share Posted June 5, 2014 If you are worried that it maybe more rejection, forward it to a really good friend and get them to read it, delete after doing so. If its more rejection its best you don't know the exact wording as it'll spin round in your head. If your friend thinks it ok, he can tell you or forward it back to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie007 Posted June 5, 2014 Share Posted June 5, 2014 You submitted this exact post in June of 2013? Possible troll alert? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gambler1984 Posted June 5, 2014 Author Share Posted June 5, 2014 I was thinking about it again and wanted to hear some other opinions on the situation I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gambler1984 Posted June 6, 2014 Author Share Posted June 6, 2014 My friend and his wife sort of argued with me why they think this email from her is good. Here's the case they made and a few other people did too.... (1) It was sent to another email account, not the one I sent my letter from. That account I never accessed after sending her the letter, so we don't know what's sitting in that inbox. So they say, "if she was sending you something bad/rejection, she wouldn't send it again and to another email account. She would assume I read it and let it be. (2) They don't think its bad because if she was moving forward with this guy at school, I wouldn't get an email from her 4 months later to a different account, asking a question of some kind. Is it worth noting that she peaked at my Linkedin later that summer? Its my only social media-type of thing I have now that my FB is deleted. Thinking about me maybe, idk? Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyConnection23 Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 Its been over a year and you haven't opened this e-mail yet? You need to speak with a therapist. Love Shack isn't going to help you.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gambler1984 Posted June 6, 2014 Author Share Posted June 6, 2014 PhillyConnection or whatever you call yourself....I didn't ask for your help or anyone elses. I asked for an opinion....your thoughts....not help, you condescending turd! Link to post Share on other sites
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