lovely221 Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 I saw him tonight(we work together) and he asked me why I'd been giving him the cold shoulder all night. I told him I hadn't been..I'd just been really busy(I had!) He asks me if I've been breaking any hearts lately and I told him no and then out of the blue he goes "I think I'm getting stood up." I asked him "why?" He proceeds to tell me he met this girl the other night and she told him she'd come in last night and never did and then never came in tonight. So my question is Why the hell would he tell me this? We've been broken up for 6 months now(had a bad breakup but are now friends...things are still weird between is though..hard to be friends). Anyways I them tell him how I've kind of been talking to this other guy that he knows and he goes "Oh really? He's a nice guy" and changes the subject. What gives? Link to post Share on other sites
RedTigerNY Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 he might be too shy or proud or somethin to admit he still has feelings for u. trynna get u to feel sorry for him about getting stood up, seeing your reaction and gaging it.. sounds like this guy wants u back in his life maybe u guys should talk about it? i mean do u still want him in ur life, what made u guys break up Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovely221 Posted February 13, 2005 Author Share Posted February 13, 2005 Thanks for the reply RedTiger! We broke up about 7 months ago because he said he didn't think we were right for eachother and things just moved way too fast between us and I think it freaked us both out. We had broken up 2 weeks before that though for 2 days when he came back telling me he wouldn't to work things out. We were back together for 2 weeks when he dumped me again. For about 2 months after our breakup I tried to get him back but he said we were too different. We've been friends for about the last 4 months but you know how it is when you are around your ex. No matter what it's still a little akward but we are cool. I just couldn't figure out why he did that to me tonight though. Thanks for your input! Link to post Share on other sites
RedTigerNY Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 it sounds like he dumped u b/c he was insecure and needs security from you big time. like when he asks you about talking to other guys 'casually' i think hes really trynna test to see if u like other guys or are truly devoted to him. i know guys like that cos im sorta like that too. u said u guys broke up first cos things were goin too fast - cos thats bc u guys were probly so compatible thats what usually happens. u get real excited about each other but when u really care and love for someone i think u get scared over how much control they have over ur life. so he mightve dumped u cos he was scared u might hurt him and hurt his manlihood. if u truly wanna be with him let him know that ur serious and wouldnt look at other guys or somethin - say how u feel about him cos i bet u anything hed really wanna know. good luck hope that helps.. Link to post Share on other sites
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