radman Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 Wife and I have been married for 12 yrs; she's 38, I just turned 40. We have 3 kids 8 and under. Both of us have little in the way of serious LTR before each other. Incident happened recently that's had me brimming. I came home the other day and found my wife dancing in our living room with all three of our kids to music on the stereo. She was really having fun with them, and they enjoyed it. She was glowing! From a sheer physical attraction POV, she was wearing some really form-fitting T-shirt and have a tight pair of pants. Make-up on and some light jewelry. But even more so was the pure joy and happiness she radiated. Bright eyes, pearls of laughter, etc. I was extremely enamored. In fact, I became floored that someone so beautiful, energetic and sexy was married....to me. I literally was in a momentary state of disbelief. Now let me put out there that I am not a dancer. I dreaded dancing at our wedding and at parties where dancing occurs, I resist going out on the dance floor. My wife tries to drag me but I end up just sitting at a table while she kicks up her heels either with our kids (if the party allows them) or her friends. During this recent impromptu dance-fest, she grabbed me while I watched all 4 of them and started to dance with me. Don't know if it was a realization of how beautiful she was, or the joy she exuded but I got suddenly really shy in front of her. It was as if we were on a 1st or 2nd date. I became even more nervous and embarrassed about attempting to dance with her, even though there was no one else watching (save our kids). Ended up pulling away from her and hovering in the kitchen, watching her dance with out me (after she waved me off about being "no fun"). I just couldn't do it; I became so self-conscious about letting go in front of this gorgeous woman, who I couldn't believe was my wife. Just wondering if anyone else has a similar story? After 12 yrs, you would think I wouldn't be nervous around her and 99% of the time I'm not. But she some how managed to turn me into a shy school boy in the presence of an exotic beauty. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SleeplessIn Posted June 6, 2014 Share Posted June 6, 2014 Why not secretly take some dance lessons and give her a huge and delightful surprise of your own? Dancing isn't hard and isn't hard to learn, a lot of it is just getting used to doing it. Link to post Share on other sites
Clockwork Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 I get where you are coming from OP. Sometimes I watch my wife changing in her clothes and wearing just panties and a bra and I can't believe that a this woman chose me. With her body (she's had our two kids and can still rock a bikini) she looks as sexy at 30 as she did when we met and she was 21. Why she settled on an overweight guy like me (I guess she liked the "teddy bear" type) is beyond me. Or I'll watch her work outside. She swings an ax around and all I can think is that this is a "man's woman" here. So yeah I kind of get what you mean. Usually at times like this I tell her to make sure the kids are contained (naps, etc.) and she knows what that means and we have a classic nooner. As for being shy around her. I don't know, if she really comes on strong I can be taken back. But I'm not sure about shy. However, sometimes I wonder how this big lug landed a hot chick like this. I don't ask, haha. Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted June 7, 2014 Share Posted June 7, 2014 Sweet. Nice uplifting thread. Link to post Share on other sites
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