My bf is fine, I don't disrespect him in the way you describe. I am not that type of flirt in which I "provoke." My crush and I are both hesitant to move forward. We both are having the same struggle of flying straight because there is so much to lose. I have to say, we have never been intimate (thankfully). We have never seen each other outside of work aside from work related events. We are trying really hard to be adults about this. It's so hard when the attraction is so strong.