amyO Posted June 10, 2014 Share Posted June 10, 2014 I hooked up with a guy that i had met this past year. We hooked up the last week of school. I've only had sex with one other guy and I'm not one to just have sex casually, but i've been lonely and we just got a long well and we both went for it. I was getting over liking another guy and this new guy (i'll refer to him as john*) got out of a year long relationship a month before. I could tell john was really interested in me and really liked me, but i wasn't sure how i felt about him yet. Even after having sex a few times, he would text me every day asking how I was and asked me to get ice cream. I wasn't expecting it, but he turned out to be a sweet guy. I told myself to give him a chance and see what happens. Now school ended and we both went back home. We haven't seen one another since we live over an hour away from each other. He has texted me nearly every day since we've been home, but for some reason the last few days he hasn't texted at all. I thought texting mattered to him a lot because he would jokingly get mad that i was the worst texter. (I get distracted easily and forget to respond haha) but now he's turned into the worst texter. He is usually the one to initiate a conversation. We'll talk for a little while and then he usually stops responding. He'll text back the next day saying "sorry I was busy" or "i fell asleep" and then we would talk more and then the same thing would Happen. He would stop texting and then answer again tomorrow. The last time this happened was thursday and I didn't hear from him all weekend. I texted sunday to see how he was and he responded like he was excited to hear from me. However, he stopped responding and hasn't texted me since. I know it's not a big deal, but i guess i'm a little bummed if he did all of a sudden lose interest. I wanted to get to know him a lot more. The only thing I can come up with is that we were running out of new things to talk about. Our conversations would get repetitive. I also think that maybe he feels he doesn't have to text me as much now since he knows I do like him? We tried hanging out over a week ago, but he had to do something for work. He also works full time every day as well. Which is another factor added in. Mhm any opinions/thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Author amyO Posted June 10, 2014 Author Share Posted June 10, 2014 I should also add in that he has had two relationships that were each a year long. However, he was only single for like 2 months in between the two relationships. I have a feeling maybe he doesn't want to have another relationship right away and wants to distance himself and take a break from having something serious this soon. Which is understandable if he all of a sudden started thinking that way. Link to post Share on other sites
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