bobono0101 Posted June 11, 2014 Share Posted June 11, 2014 (edited) I have visited this forum 3 or 4 years ago and got really nice and honest advice from others. However, this time it might be little bit long and not interesting, so i really do appreciate people who would respond this. I met this guy long time ago, and we have been friends who would nicely say hi to each other and talk about our relationship problems if we bump into somewhere unexpectedly. Basically back then, both of us had bf and gf. However last year, we met at the park when we were both single. We kind of flirted and started to hang out a lot with our other friends. I like him secretly and i am not intending to approach him first, so i have been waiting for him to do something. Here and there we had our ex issues, so we stopped hanging out. We also could not stay away from each other, so now we hang out almost everyday or so. However, we still act like friends. We dont hold hands or kiss. There is nothing thats physically attached. All of our other friends say that we would be perfect couples and i dont know why they keep saying that cuz we keep it simple just like friends. Well the most important thing is that i dont understand why he is keeping me there if he is not doing anything. Both of us know that we are not friends hundred percent. Sometimes when he is tipsy or drunk, he would complain me why i did not get that or this while he had intention of seeing me or wanting to hang out. Nowadays, he questions what i was gonna do with others and whom i was gonna hang out if we r not together hanging out. He hugs me and stares at me only when he is tipsy. But i should not leave that he is very caring for me in general and respects and has nice relationship witb my relatives. All i know is that this time he is looking for something very serious ideally future wife and doesnt wanna waste his time on something that is not worth his time. Please give me honest feedback and opinion about what he would be thinking? And what i should do. I appreciate it!!!! Thank you Edited June 11, 2014 by bobono0101 Link to post Share on other sites
Diabloterr Posted June 11, 2014 Share Posted June 11, 2014 Why are you attracted to this guy? I am talking about specific factual traits and actions that tell you that this guy would be a good partner for you.That seems to be a decent starting point to uncovering the foundation for a potential relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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