_Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 hmmmmmmm ok...... so todays valentines day, its also my ex's birthday, and we have been emailing back n forth for like the past 4-5 hours, light hearted, joking about stuff. apparently hes shaved, no longer werewolf material. someone please tell me why hes doing this? Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 well it obviously IS affecting you, so that is opne reason. you are now faultering on your decesion to break up and questioning what happened... i am sure. this is why. Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 and because he knows he's got you wrapped around his lil' finger. Believe me, he's LOVIN' IT !!! I can see his head swelling from here. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Grasping for affection? Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 hardly, but thanks for the comment. Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Grasping for affection? dont think so tiki, the mails are just pretty much normal chat.........guess perhaps im reading more into this than i should be. hes finished work and gone home now anyhow, probably the end of it. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 You don't think he's looking for affection on this day, which happens to be Valentine's and his birthday? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by _Saffy_ dont think so tiki, the mails are just pretty much normal chat.........guess perhaps im reading more into this than i should be. hes finished work and gone home now anyhow, probably the end of it. Ah, just ignore him then. Guys love that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 lol when i said hardly, i was talking to din. i dunno, what hes doing, but theres no affection in the emails. bit of self pity from him, but other than actually replying, hes not getting much outta me. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 But he could still be looking for a sign of affection from you? Guys are weird. Like I said, ignore him....lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by tiki But he could still be looking for a sign of affection from you? Guys are weird. Like I said, ignore him....lol. hes gonna have to work a bit harder than "hi, how are you"......kinda thing, to get a hint of affection outta me. despite what i feel for him.........weird......yeah ya not kidding Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Of course he is.... I didn't say anything different then anyone else.... I'm just more 'blunt' and giving you a 'guys' perspective. He's testing your strength by sending you emails... and you were responding for hours. His emotions were curious and are now fulfilled. Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by DinNJ Of course he is.... I didn't say anything different then anyone else.... I'm just more 'blunt' and giving you a 'guys' perspective. He's testing your strength by sending you emails... and you were responding for hours. His emotions were curious and are now fulfilled. well im not the kinda person that caves in easily, so his "fulfilled emotions" will now know that i am in a jovial mood today, that im living my life exactly the way i was, that i am going to the theatre tonight (alone but i omitted that bit) and that im still the same person i always was before we got together. im sure he will feel fulfilled knowing all that. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Yeah, you gave him just what he wanted. A reply. Link to post Share on other sites
DinNJ Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Yeah, you gave him just what he wanted. A reply. the point I was trying to make. *shakes head* guess I could've just SAID THAT!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 well thanks for the support guys. Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 hahahaaha..... _Saffy_............ahahahaahhaahah You *****ed up...... now...... cut off the line......... and if he calls/emails/txts/smoke signals... give him the big "........................." Or better yet...... come out and say it..... front him up with "What the hell do you want?!?!" Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 "phukked up" .............how exactly?? Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Well, my dear Saf (can I call you this? ), if you have chatted with him a lot today, it does tend to indicate willingness to get back, whatever you do to project a postive cheerful and "getting on with my life" image. With ReluctantJuliette, we once spent an entire working day IM-ing. But you just don't do this when you're not romantically interested. Anyhow, it's not the end of the world. What the werewolf said in his email was FAR more embarrassing. And a little humiliating too. I hope you made at least one jokey reference to this Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 oh Romeo, of course you can call me whatever you like. i have of course been waiting all day long for you to get back into my box but you see the truth is, i have not entertained getting back with him, and i wouldnt even address that matter, not until he actually brought it up, and even then, after the ups and downs that i have been through over the past few months, it is not likely to be a positive answer. im just too nice to ignore people, especially people that know me so well that if i did ignore them, they would know damn well that i was doing it out of spite. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Originally posted by _Saffy_ oh Romeo, of course you can call me whatever you like. i have of course been waiting all day long for you to get back into my box Well, I'm back in your box now, baby im just too nice to ignore people, especially people that know me so well that if i did ignore them, they would know damn well that i was doing it out of spite. Just too nice for your own good Next time, just reply a little more slowly.... give it 12-24 hours before replying. Don't do this to me, of course Link to post Share on other sites
Author _Saffy_ Posted February 14, 2005 Author Share Posted February 14, 2005 Well, I'm back in your box now, baby Don't do this to me, of course never !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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