Simon Phoenix Posted June 16, 2014 Share Posted June 16, 2014 I am willing to go through as many ups and downs as I have to. I want her back. I can take whatever pain and confusion comes along the way. What do you suggest I do next? While I complain/whine a lot here I am incredibly disciplined and strong. I can do this. Nothing for now. She broke up with you, it's up to her to do most of the lifting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author heart12 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Share Posted June 16, 2014 Nothing for now. She broke up with you, it's up to her to do most of the lifting. If I don't hear from her by the end of the weekend I am going to send out a feeler. Link to post Share on other sites
mangetout Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 If I don't hear from her by the end of the weekend I am going to send out a feeler. I think you should. I personally think its odd that she is taking such a length of time to respond to your messages. Anyone can reply to a message by the end of the day, no matter how busy you are. She is either playing hard to get ( which is stupid mind games) or she is dating others ( and best you find that out too!) Link to post Share on other sites
Author heart12 Posted June 17, 2014 Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 I think you should. I personally think its odd that she is taking such a length of time to respond to your messages. Anyone can reply to a message by the end of the day, no matter how busy you are. She is either playing hard to get ( which is stupid mind games) or she is dating others ( and best you find that out too!) I know for a fact she is not dating others. She has been living out of town on a remote land for a year and just moved back home last week. She literally has spent every night with her family or the girls (except the one night with me). I think she is just trying to keep it SUPER casual for now until we get closer and it is in fact all games. Anyways we'll see is she hits me up by end of week, if not I'll tell her I made resos for Tuesday night and I'll pick her up at 8. Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyConnection23 Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I know for a fact she is not dating others. She has been living out of town on a remote land for a year and just moved back home last week. She literally has spent every night with her family or the girls (except the one night with me). I think she is just trying to keep it SUPER casual for now until we get closer and it is in fact all games. Anyways we'll see is she hits me up by end of week, if not I'll tell her I made resos for Tuesday night and I'll pick her up at 8. She has been away for a year and only moved back a week? I don't know about you but if I'm away for a year I would want to spend as much time as possible with my close friends and family first. Give this girl some distance and let her get used to being back in her hometown. Link to post Share on other sites
Author heart12 Posted June 17, 2014 Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 She has been away for a year and only moved back a week? I don't know about you but if I'm away for a year I would want to spend as much time as possible with my close friends and family first. Give this girl some distance and let her get used to being back in her hometown. Exactly....well she had been coming home once every couple months for a few days so it's not so drastic but the fact that we had dinner the first night she was home is a good sign to me. She got home late Tuesday night and we had dinner on the Wednesday. Link to post Share on other sites
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