REALITYMAN Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 I was in a relationship with my girlfriend . She broke up , decided to live in europe and live herr life there and then said she did not love me . She was going to be my wife and we had lots of plans , but she discarded it . I syopped comminicaring , but wroye her a poen because it was valentine . She was glad that i sent her the poem because it made her feel a little better , because she was down . But she said nothing else . is it a good sigh ot just graciousness ? How do i get her to be my girl again ? thanks all ! realityman Link to post Share on other sites
acidrein_08 Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Hey man, good idea on writing her a poem. I'm sorry to tell you that it will not change her decision. I can also tell you that you can not change her mind. You can not make someone love you or be with you when they don't want to. But there is good news, there are plenty of fish in the sea and there is someone out there that will care for you just as much as you care for them. Take time to mourn over the loss of this person but do so while moving on with your life. It is too short to be wasting days crying or being depressed. If she wants you then she will come back, and with every hope I wish she does for you. Just give it time, go out and have some fun, if she comes back (which chances are she probably won't, but it happens!) then you know she loves you and that she isn't coming back just becuase you begged her too. Good luck in everything, and HappY Valentine's Day! Link to post Share on other sites
realityman Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 I appreciate your input . I gave her everything i could and then boom one day she goes to visit her mom and then gets a call from her dad overseas and has to go there ." She leaves FROM HER MOM'S HOUSE " and tells me she will explain " ALL LATER " there are problems she has to deal with . I tell her do as you need to do . I figured someone was ill . She never till this day explained anything . i am caring and uinderstanding TOWARDS HER DURING THE 2 MONTHS . . I spoke with her numerous times and she was going to come for the holidays . She even signed up at school there . Then one month later she tells me she will not come back and she loves it there and our plans are over . Just move on . She is happy there and will not be with me and she does not love me . This is a girl that was utterly dedicated and we were planning to get marries within a year . Now i did no contact for one month till i wrote her the poem . I figured I would fill in the story . She left the end of isept . What are your thoughts ? Will she return ? thanks . Now you know the whole story . Link to post Share on other sites
REALITYMAN Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 i SIT HERE ALONE ON VALENTINE'S DAY , WONDERING WHAT HAPPENED TO MY PRECIOUS GIRLFRIEND . She was perfect in every way , in fact I love her more than ever . She chose to be alone and live in europe and go to university . I had told her that I was going to pay for her tuition . We were all set she was going to study here and we were planning our life together and she just discarded all our dreams . Well , I wish and hope you all had a nice valentine . Thanks for your help . I just can not understand my situation . How can I get her back ? realityman Link to post Share on other sites
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