My guy is sick

[Tea]

He wants to have a threesome. I told him that if I do not satisfy him, he should take a hike. He says, that he just wants to try, and suggested to bring his female friend, and wants me to make out with her while he watches, and then wants to have sex with both of us..

 

He watches porn, and gets those ideas there I think.

 

Also, sometimes instead of making love, he asks me if I could masturbate him? What's up with that???

 

is not that sick!

[Bobby Dygytul]

lol here is a good way to end this. Tell him your fantasy is to have a threesome with two guys and tell him that in order for you to fullfill his fantasies, he has to fullfill yours by making out with another guy while you watch. I guarentee he will drop this subject fast!!

He wants to have a threesome. I told him that if I do not satisfy him, he should take a hike. He says, that he just wants to try, and suggested to bring his female friend, and wants me to make out with her while he watches, and then wants to have sex with both of us.. He watches porn, and gets those ideas there I think. Also, sometimes instead of making love, he asks me if I could masturbate him? What's up with that??? is not that sick!

[Tony T]

Actually, nothing is sick if it doesn't hurt anybody and all participants consent. I do not think this guy is compatible with you sexually and as time goes on his needs and desires may become even more bizarre.

 

I can understand exactly how you feel and you need to tell him. But if he's looking for threesomes and for you to make out with another female while he watches this early in the relationship, I pity you ten years down the line with him.

 

As for the masturbation, if that turns him on and you consent, nothing wrong there. If it bothers you, communicate that to him.

 

This whole sexual thing between you and him sort of smells at this point. I can understand why you feel weird about it. Your relationship with him may not last a whole lot longer. I don't think you've heard the last of his bizarre requests.

[unnamed]

Not three. Enough said.

 

Drop him, he's not worth it.

[Fishbulb]

lol here is a good way to end this. Tell him your fantasy is to have a threesome with two guys and tell him that in order for you to fullfill his fantasies, he has to fullfill yours by making out with another guy while you watch. I guarentee he will drop this subject fast!!

A toast to The Post That Can Boast The Most Roast! Oh, man, ABSO-FREAKIN-LUTELY will that shut that crap down fast-what, he see too many 'Undressed' marathons? It should follow right down the line, as well...if he wants to see a 69, hey, so do you...etc., BD good...

[blinker]

something's up here. if he suggested a threesome and already has a gal pal picked out, I'd say he's possibly cheated on you. do not ever let any man pressure you into doing sexual things that you don't feel comfortable with. you are not wrong to not want to participate in a threesome. don't let him talk you into it no matter what. sounds to me like he's nothing but a pervert. as for masturbating him, i don't see that as a big deal, giving him a handjob. try it, you might like it. if that's not your style then that's not your style. i'd dump a guy who wanted a threesome and already had a third party picked out. you can do much better then this loser.

 

He wants to have a threesome. I told him that if I do not satisfy him, he should take a hike. He says, that he just wants to try, and suggested to bring his female friend, and wants me to make out with her while he watches, and then wants to have sex with both of us.. He watches porn, and gets those ideas there I think. Also, sometimes instead of making love, he asks me if I could masturbate him? What's up with that??? is not that sick!