Virgo79 Posted June 16, 2014 Share Posted June 16, 2014 I've been in a six year no commitment relationship a great guy. We have gotten really close over the years. He has pretty much become my best friend. We celebrate holidays together, have regular date nights and have had an enjoyable physical relationship. I love him unconditionally. The issue, I believe he cannot be honest with me. I have told him that, if at this point he still needs to see other people I would like to know and likely would like to stop seeing him. I would rather us separate paths than to end up hurt. Above all, I would never want to lose him as a friend. I expressed that since so much time has passed, if our situation is not going to ever progress, I don't understand us continuing it. Every time I try to express how I feel, he says he understands, says he doesn't know what he wants and the next day he acts like I never said anything. Anyone have any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Virgo79 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Share Posted June 16, 2014 That's what I figure, but I don't know how. I'm really scared of what's going to happen. Link to post Share on other sites
jbelle6 Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I would walk. Sounds like this no commitment thing is no longer what you are looking for. And after 6 years, if he still doesn't know if he wants a commitment you will probably have to separate paths so you can find what you are looking for. He has no reason to change anything, you are sitting there on the shelf for him and he can meet other women. He's not going to change that if he doesn't have to. Walk, let him see what it's like without you. Link to post Share on other sites
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