nextel Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 After reading Newbie's diary, I found something funny about what someone posted and so I thought I should ask the question because a girl that I know is the OW and she also stated the same thing. Ladies, do your MM have small willies? Now I am really curious to know if they just need their egos stroked because of their "little problem". Link to post Share on other sites
MsMree Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 my MM is VERY WELL ENDOWED - and he can go all night - just INCREDIBLE!!! BUT... it just makes it that much harder to walk away. Link to post Share on other sites
izzybelle Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 not an issue with my exMM!!! our time together was always wonderful and i couldn't have asked for a better lover. he's now set the bar too high, i fear, for anyone else to even come close!!!! that said, i do think his ego needed to be stroked because of his lack of relations with his wife. he was also quickly approaching 50, a fact that i don't think he was happy about. i don't know that he'd ever admit it but i do think that was part of the reason for the affair... he needed to prove something to himself and perhaps, in a sick way, to his wife... that someone really did still want him, even if she didn't. his ego definitely needed some massaging. unfortunately, for me, i was too wrapped up in his professions of love to be able to see the potential reasons behind it until it was too late. of course, i'm still convinced that his W was having, or had had, an affair herself at some point. toooooo many of those "is your spouse cheating" criteria fit with her behavior. of course, he said that she'd never do that.... how many times have we heard that before? Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 my xmm was perfect!! and always fun ,never got bored ,i catered to him a lot he used to call me his little porn star ,he never had such a good intimate sex life and neither had i think it had allot to do with we communicated a lot what we liked and we were about pleasing each other . Link to post Share on other sites
Leaf Posted February 16, 2005 Share Posted February 16, 2005 No... he is perfect. Same thing about going all night. He is the greatest lover of my life. I have no complaints in that department. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted February 16, 2005 Share Posted February 16, 2005 My exMM wasn't at all.. actually, he was the best I ever had. I think your theories been proved wrong.. Link to post Share on other sites
newby Posted February 16, 2005 Share Posted February 16, 2005 i feel really cruel now. poor mm. i'm not being sarcastic, it must be really awful for a man. by the way i never said he was small just that he had problems with e.d. i have no idea of the size of the thing erect unfortunately. well as izzybell said i do think there is usually something they are trying to feel better about, get their ego's massaged about. having said that i believe there is an element of that in every person in every relationship. and anyone who doesnt admit it, i believe they are lying or not very self aware. ha! i have noticed myself defending the mm alot lately, i think this is a sign that i am being more objective, getting perspective. Link to post Share on other sites
ww Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 no. but he had ugly wife ( i think that is his major frustration) Link to post Share on other sites
Sad Flower Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 My MM was fine not too hot not too cold but just right..LOL I was happy with the size however he didn't know how to work it very well, he was a stiff guy and he had some getting it up issues, I don't know where that stemmed from, and he wasn't good @ oral @ all!!! He sucked! He did say something that was puzzling to me but I never asked questions about it, He said My wife doesn't like me to please her, she thinks it's something bad I just said ummmm ok..... Link to post Share on other sites
CaughtUp Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 He was the one who let me know that there is a God! Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 My last MM was an excellent lover-and oddly interested in my satisfaction, for such an selfish assh*le. I marked it down to his insecuirity-he would always say he had a small penis but he knew it wasn't, just wanted to hear me state otherwise. Likewise he would want to ensure that I got off not because he loved me, but because I don't think his SO did as easily as I did with him. Plus he loved the sexual act-as did I-and everything about it. We both gained immense satisfaction in pleasing the other. Link to post Share on other sites
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