Clockwork Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Think of it like the movie "Indecent Proposal." Great movie. Pretty accurate result of the things that could happen as well. Alright so picture it, you are approached by a wealthy person who takes a liking to your wife/husband. The offer is $1 million for one night. Do you take it? Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpybutfun Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 (edited) Sure, why not? My ex wife was already having sex with other people and I never got a cent. Now I understand so much about your other thread....sad dude...projection and all. You would sell your wife but FWB is a sin. Not cool to be jaded to all women and scare them when it is you who is so jaded about life. G No, she wouldn't even consider it, money is just money. Best, Grumps Edited June 17, 2014 by Grumpybutfun 5 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 no....i am protective wouldnt and couldnt, be offered money for a partner of mine to sleep with another.....i would protect the relationship...i would kick the womans ass.....maybe with words and a back off demeanor...she would back off........and if a guy could let me go so easily....i wouldnt respect him or his capacity to love me like i deserve, it would kill all desire and turn me into a platonic friend........i know this to be true......deb.. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Iguanna Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 If I would reach the point to even consider this, it would mean that I'm not worth being in this marriage anyway. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Anela Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 No. ................ 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 'Would you let him/her' implies that the spouse already wants to, yes? Since if they didn't, the point would be moot? In that case, that means they would've already checked out, and so would I. Sure, go ahead and do it, come back and we'll split the money, then I'll be amicably on my way to seek a rather more loyal partner. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
y2k Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Hell no. She could end up his for good........ Sex for most women is personal. That's why you see more women in affairs fall in love with urges to leave their husbands for their affair partners more than men (who only smash and dash and act as if it's nothing). I wouldn't take such as risk. Link to post Share on other sites
dichotomy Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 No ...because that would be the end of the marriage... and then she would get half that million... plus child support... and got to have had sex with someone else. Nice for her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nofeelings22 Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 If she wanted to, sure. I would hope to have a marriage strong enough to withstand a single night. Let's face it, the guy paying the $1mil is obviously not a threat if he's paying $1mil. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lonegirl Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 No, no and no. Spent many happy times without money, if he wants then he can set me free and enjoy his cash! Link to post Share on other sites
Toodamnpragmatic Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Really???? The premise was stoopid or so I thought (until we read of people selling virginity and such), but geez it is just sex and for one time with no emotional attachment. You really think that in some way your spouse would turn into some porn star for those 15-20 minutes;)? And remember when the movie came out $1,000,000 seemed like a lot more.... Today it would probably be $5,000,000:laugh:. And no I am not into open marriages or swinging or condone cheating...... Pretty much against them all, but we're talking some major coin..... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Sorry but I wouldn't dare think of putting a price on my relationship. I also believe that people and things have energy. Accepting that kind of money for doing a dirty deed can only mean bad joo joo all around. Haven't you heard? Money is the root of all evil. No thank you. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
alwayshere Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 No, and I would have smacked him if he had asked me to sleep with someone else for 1M. Link to post Share on other sites
Candy_Pants Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 In theory we've talked about threesomes, while married, and for no money. So I don't see a problem with saying yes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lucy_in_disguise Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 If my spouse was comfortable with it, and the relationship was otherwise on strong footing, sure! Let's be real, we've both done more for less. Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Well I don't "let" my spouse do much of anything as he is a grown man the last time I checked. But would I agree to an arrangement like this, probably not. Dealing with the potential ripple effect of him having sex with another, or vice versa, isn't worth the money. I will stay a million lighter and not deal with that mess. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Tiger Lily Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Alright so picture it, you are approached by a wealthy person who takes a liking to your wife/husband. The offer is $1 million for one night. Do you take it? Is this wealthy woman 85 and basically akin to Skeletor? Well, hmmm... ...haha, nope, wouldn't agree to it. Even if we're on the brink of financial disaster, it's not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
iiiii Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 No. Ten characters. Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 We are swingers, so we have sex with others for fun. Money cheapens it, but isn't necessarily a deal-breaker as long as she'd have sex with him anyway. I'd be more concerned about the tax implications - probably more on him, as the payer of the gift is the one who pays the taxes, and would definitely not treat it as fee for service, because she wouldn't do it FOR money, but REGARDLESS OF the money. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
WasOtherWoman Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 If he were willing and we didn't have to declare it as income? Absolutely. Would then donate the entire amount to my favorite cause.. parrot rescue. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Do you take it? Only if, after the resulting divorce, I'd get to keep half ... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
iris219 Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 A million for one time, NSA sex? That's a lot of money for a few minutes of "work." I'd consider letting him do it. I'd want the money upfront though. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
twosadthings Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 There's an old joke about a guy asking a girl at a bar about sleeping with him for a million dollars and she says yes. He then asks if she'd do it for five hundred thousand. She said yes again. Finally he asks if she'd sleep with him for five hundred dollars to which she says certainly not, What kind of a girl do you think I am? His reply? You've proven what kind of a girl you are, I was just negotiating. The real answer is whether you're the type of person who would share their spouse. Twosadthings 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodamnpragmatic Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 A million for one time, NSA sex? That's a lot of money for a few minutes of "work." I'd consider letting him do it. I'd want the money upfront though. That's what my wife would say..... "Services Provided.... All sales final. Satisfaction NOT guaranteed":p 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Koopa Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I would advise the rich guy that he could get 10,000 cheap hookers, 1,000 quality call girls, 100 really top shelf model quality women or 1 Kardashian and you get to film it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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