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Would you let your spouse have sex with someone for $1,000,000?

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Toodamnpragmatic Established Member

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I would advise the rich guy that he could get 10,000 cheap hookers, 1,000 quality call girls, 100 really top shelf model quality women or 1 Kardashian and you get to film it.

 

That Kardashian and all that plastic is not worth it. As Charlie Sheen said "I don't pay her to sleep with me, I pay her to leave", and you know that family isn't leaving.....

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SJS Established Member

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Double the offer and make it a threesome!

 

 

Kidding....lol

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BetrayedH Established Member

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Is this offer retroactive?

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Mr. Lucky Established Member

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There's an old joke about a guy asking a girl at a bar about sleeping with him for a million dollars and she says yes. He then asks if she'd do it for five hundred thousand. She said yes again. Finally he asks if she'd sleep with him for five hundred dollars to which she says certainly not, What kind of a girl do you think I am? His reply? You've proven what kind of a girl you are, I was just negotiating.

I was also thinking of the joke at the other end of the spectrum where a husband and wife, having fallen on hard times, decide the only answer to their financial problems is to have the wife begin walking the streets. At dawn after the first night, she returns home with $17.25. Amazed that it could be so little, the husbands asks who gave her 25 cents? Her answer - "everybody".

 

Perhaps a spouse that would sleep with someone else for $1,000,000 is really only worth 25 cents :confused: ???

 

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BetrayedH Established Member

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My wife likes to talk dirty during sex. I told her to quit calling me so late from her hotel room.

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Glinda.Good Established Member

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Who gets the million bucks, my spouse or me?

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soccerrprp Established Member

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Think of it like the movie "Indecent Proposal." Great movie. Pretty accurate result of the things that could happen as well.

 

Alright so picture it, you are approached by a wealthy person who takes a liking to your wife/husband. The offer is $1 million for one night. Do you take it?

 

My gf (soon wife) IS PRICELESS!!!! No amount of money would bring me to agree to her having sex with someone else for money. I could never look at her the same, loving way...after the money, the relationship would be over. If she insisted, I would have no choice, but let her and take my share.....and then divorce her. My share would represent the pain and suffering...:)

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Clockwork Established Member

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Sorry but I wouldn't dare think of putting a price on my relationship.

 

I also believe that people and things have energy. Accepting that kind of money for doing a dirty deed can only mean bad joo joo all around.

 

Haven't you heard? Money is the root of all evil.

 

No thank you.

 

You are right about what you wrote. I will say this though, the most misquoted passage from the Bible is this one. It says the "love" of money is the root of all evil. Not just money in general.

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I wouldn't let a stranger have my wife for that money either. Heck, I can always earn money for the rest of my life. But if anyone saw Indecent Proposal you'll know it wasn't pretty..........afterwards. And they struggled with the decision in the beginning as well. They were just flat broke and about to lose their home. They were desperate. So it wasn't as if the other person mailed it in.

 

I would worry about the ramifications that this could have on my relationship. Would we trust each other? Would my wife think of me as much of a provider after I had to "sell" her to get some cash? What if she felt slighted and this guy swept her off her feet? I mean, we're talking about sex here. The guy is doing things to your wife that are reserved for you and only you. He is ravaging every inch of her body. Yeah, that would keep me up at nights, even if we were in a nicer house by then.

Toodamnpragmatic Established Member

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I wouldn't let a stranger have my wife for that money either. Heck, I can always earn money for the rest of my life. But if anyone saw Indecent Proposal you'll know it wasn't pretty..........afterwards. And they struggled with the decision in the beginning as well. They were just flat broke and about to lose their home. They were desperate. So it wasn't as if the other person mailed it in.

 

I would worry about the ramifications that this could have on my relationship. Would we trust each other? Would my wife think of me as much of a provider after I had to "sell" her to get some cash? What if she felt slighted and this guy swept her off her feet? I mean, we're talking about sex here. The guy is doing things to your wife that are reserved for you and only you. He is ravaging every inch of her body. Yeah, that would keep me up at nights, even if we were in a nicer house by then.

 

It was a silly silly movie and the whole premise that she fell for Robert Redford was what I found funny and ridiculous. It was a business transaction plain and simple and should have ended there. The rest was unbelievable and fluff.

 

Did you all marry virgins? Do you think about what others did to them prior to you two being together, whether they were bigger or better or allowed to do other things? Does it keep you up at night?

 

Of course this is much different from an open marriage or swinging, which I have a much different opinion on.

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I would be insulted by the proposal and would scoff at them.

 

Further I can't "allow them" to...I'm not a pimp and cannot encourage or force my SO to have sex with some person who "took a liking to them" for money, no matter how many zeros.

 

Money isn't everything. I actually have principles that money cannot weaken.

 

I understand if you're desperate...and what is done in desperation is one thing, but if I am not desperate then I would pass. And even if I was desperate I would only be doing it for that reason and no other and would still feel weird about it. If my husband asked me to have sex with some man for a million dollars...I'd be disgusted and it would really put a wedge in between us. TBH I have joked with bfs about similar things but in all seriousness if it actually happened, I wouldn't entertain it, esp within the context of a marriage.

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With rare exceptions (such as partners that are already in an open relationship), I think the answer depends on whether you think your relationship with your partner is worth more than one million dollars.

 

If it's worth more than that... why risk it?

If it's worth less than that to you... why not go for it?

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It was a silly silly movie and the whole premise that she fell for Robert Redford was what I found funny and ridiculous. It was a business transaction plain and simple and should have ended there. The rest was unbelievable and fluff.

 

Did you all marry virgins? Do you think about what others did to them prior to you two being together, whether they were bigger or better or allowed to do other things? Does it keep you up at night?

 

Of course this is much different from an open marriage or swinging, which I have a much different opinion on.

 

You don't think that it could happen? She nails a guy for one night, he's a billionaire. He is everything her husband isn't. They just shared the most intimate thing you could possibly share. Yeah, it could happen.

KathyM Established Member

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No, I wouldn't sell my husband's body for money.

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What that money could do for us, our kids, the life we'd lead together and the time we could spend together because of the freedom it would give....

 

I'd agree if he was prepared to do it. We have a strong relationship, heavy on communication and I reckon we could get past one night, in those circumstances, without too much difficulty.

Toodamnpragmatic Established Member

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You don't think that it could happen? She nails a guy for one night, he's a billionaire. He is everything her husband isn't. They just shared the most intimate thing you could possibly share. Yeah, it could happen.

 

Really? It's a simple business transaction. If she wants to leave you for a billionaire it would have nothing to do with the sex they just had (after meeting one day before).

MuscleCarFan Established Member

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Absolutely not!

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With rare exceptions (such as partners that are already in an open relationship), I think the answer depends on whether you think your relationship with your partner is worth more than one million dollars.

 

If it's worth more than that... why risk it?

If it's worth less than that to you... why not go for it?

 

This assumes that you place an extremely high importance on one instance of agreed-upon sex with someone else and that one does not have much confidence in the relationship to feel that this would be a risk.

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With rare exceptions (such as partners that are already in an open relationship), I think the answer depends on whether you think your relationship with your partner is worth more than one million dollars.

 

If it's worth more than that... why risk it?

If it's worth less than that to you... why not go for it?

 

My relationship is worth far more than a $million, but it could be worth that PLUS a $million more! Besides, it would happen only IF she'd have been willing to do him anyway (we ARE in an open relationship, and swingers too, so it's no biggie to have sex with others when we want to). Given our experiences and experience, the risk would be essentially non-existent.

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Lol You Been Watching Recent Episodes Of Californication

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redtail Established Member

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How much for just a hand job?

iiiii Established Member

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My relationship is worth far more than a $million, but it could be worth that PLUS a $million more! Besides, it would happen only IF she'd have been willing to do him anyway (we ARE in an open relationship, and swingers too, so it's no biggie to have sex with others when we want to). Given our experiences and experience, the risk would be essentially non-existent.

 

Then you're a rare exception. :) Couples who can be SURE than one of them having sex with someone else won't risk the relationship are rare... but you've just shown us that you do exist!

giotto Established Member

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My answer is yes... if I get half of it... and he can keep my wife too! :D

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In theory we've talked about threesomes, while married, and for no money. So I don't see a problem with saying yes.

 

We've discussed potential threesomes far, far in the future when our R is more solid, but I couldn't jive with my partner sleeping with another woman or man without me present and participating.

 

My answer is hell no.

MuscleCarFan Established Member

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Lol You Been Watching Recent Episodes Of Californication

 

That's what came to mind first since I have never seen Indecent Proposal.

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