soulstarter Posted June 17, 2014 Posted June 17, 2014 HI there. met a guy. know him about 4 months through a course we do. not going to lie. I saw him . I liked him. now I like him more. after some meetings a few people would go for coffee. he would often go. I was asked by a friend of mine to go over one time. I kept going wether he was there or not coz well I like tea and deep conversation. (coursework talk involves psychology) he doesn't drink, smoke or do drugs. which is refreshing sometimes in this day and age,. I drink, used to smoke which he knows but I don't do drugs. im no angel of course anyway recently we were at a meeting . I stayed back to talk to people. so did he. I was leaving. I left. closed the door and then he opened it. caught me ont he stairs and asked would I go for coffee. we went. talked for over 2 hours. talked about books . some I have read and he has too. football... yes im a girl but I had a dad who was a football nut so I know so I listened. when we talked he kept hitting me ont he shoulder. lightly not a dead arm or anything... he walked me to the bus stop... shook my hand... once, twice, three times...overkill.... I know.. that day I learned there is a correct way to shake a ladies hand. his words ... not mine... next week same thing. he left first. said goodbye.no one went for coffee. I went for coffee and read coursework. I was by myself. then he walks in thedoor. says I walk very fast , he was trying to ask if we would go for coffee in the university grounds in the city. we went. asked me if I needed anything in the shop. I was going to get a bar of chocolate but the shop was crowded and I said nah ill get it later. he bought 2 bars of chocolate. 1 for him and one for me. we walked and talked. he turned his phone off and we sat on a bench in the uni gardens. talked for over an hour. IM confused. I know I like this guy. other wise I wouldn't be writing ont his website. im not sure if he is just being a nice normal friendly guy which I don't want to mistake for anything else because you know how we girls analyse... he looks me in the eye when he talks to me. something I find really important anyway and just a bonus on this occasion. he mentioned... and I want to empahsise mentioned he was thinking of me the other day and told me to listen to a song he thought I might like. im asking because well ive never been in a situation like this as such and I really don't want to screw it upby being my usual stalker like me like me self...you know... he says hello and I am already making wedding plans... plus friendzone is not that bad in this case... or my last case. haha promising or delusional... your thoughts social people of loveshhack.... tell me if im barking up thewrong tree or just barking?
preraph Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 He sounds like he really likes you and that he respects you and intends to take it slowly and respectfully, so what you need to do is not move faster than him because he sounds great! Moving too fast might throw him off. This isn't friend stuff. He likes you! His mama raised him right!
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