Mr Scorpio Posted June 25, 2014 Share Posted June 25, 2014 OP, I hope you aren't basing your happiness on a relationship with a 20 year old. She may be nice, beautiful, funny, smart, compassionate, generous, and kinky, but she's 20. The vast majority of 20 year olds are very fickle. They don't know what they want, because they don't fully know who they even are. Don't me wrong. I'm glad you found a new friend. Just don't let her get in the way of you establishing your career. A broken relationship is not conducive to studying. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jono85 Posted June 25, 2014 Author Share Posted June 25, 2014 OP, I hope you aren't basing your happiness on a relationship with a 20 year old. She may be nice, beautiful, funny, smart, compassionate, generous, and kinky, but she's 20. The vast majority of 20 year olds are very fickle. They don't know what they want, because they don't fully know who they even are. Don't me wrong. I'm glad you found a new friend. Just don't let her get in the way of you establishing your career. A broken relationship is not conducive to studying. Yeah I hear you. I do not disagree with you, as I've seen it first hand, time and time again; just so damn inconsistent. But what's frustrating is other guys seem to get a hold of them fine. It's not like 19-23 yo girls don't have serious relationships, or don't fall in love, etc. Aside from my ex, who was 23 at the time I dated her, and was pretty in love with me for a period, I just don't succeed ever with these young girls. They like me for a few weeks, and then are on to the next one. It's a little frustrating that I can't hold one down for a relationship, is all. I suppose that's too much to ask! I just don't get how I'm obviously at least attractive enough for them to want to start talking to me, to even have sex with me (a few...), to want to make out with me, etc etc etc., but it always dies quite quickly. Maybe the girls I chase are girls who chase more powerful/alpha dudes, I don't know. Maybe they're content settling with me for a bit when their options are few, or maybe they just came out of a hurtful breakup, but then it's like I'm just the hold-me-over or the bridge, to their next boyfriend, lol. Anyway, I fully agree with you, that these chicks aren't worth eating into my future and my career. For whatever reason though, I still can't help but chase them every now and then, and get sucked in. I think it's part lonliness/seeking companionship, and part maybe validation seeking and a confidence booster. I'm not sure. And as for why I generally go for younger chicks, I'm not sure whether I mentioned this, but I'm very young looking. I look 22 tops. I simply don't think I attract attractive girls my age, who are looking for men, both physically and career wise. But yes, if this one turns out to be too much of a headache, I'll likely abandon ship and focus on these exams exclusively until next summer when I've hopefully passed both. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jono85 Posted June 27, 2014 Author Share Posted June 27, 2014 i'm f*cking done with girls. seriously. i either have the worst luck ever, or majority of young chicks are pieces of complete sh*t. probably a little bit of both. these f*cking girls are all over you and into you one week, and almost seem repelled from you the next, without anything happening in the interim. i'm done. i keep getting absolutely mind f*cked and it always ends the same way. me having to bite my tongue from ripping her the f*ck apart for being so into me consistently day after day with smilies and flirty texts and blowing my phone up, to absolute radio silence and when i do finally ask what's up after a few days it's "i'm just so busy" absolute horse-****. i wish i could rip into her for dropping off the map all of a sudden, but whatever, it's not even worth it. deleting her number, and the next time she texts me that will be deleted too. i don't care if she's dealing with an ex, or if there's a cool guy she just met this week, or the fact that we haven't even met up for a real date yet, i'm just tired of the disrespect and inconsistencies. if i like a girl and meet a new girl i like better before we go on a 2nd our even 1st date, i'm not about to start ignoring or distancing myself from the 1st girl unless i'm absolutely sure i'm done with her. there's no coming back after these days of absolute weirdness and 2 word texts and not responding to my text for 12+ hours, and telling me how busy she is (when she was blowing up my phone last week with 13 hour shifts, during and after work, etc). i can get a f*cking clue as to what's going on. and the worst part is i'll never find out what happened, whether it was me, or whether an ex, or what. total mind-f*ck. f*ck girls. /rant Link to post Share on other sites
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