darkmoon Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 i have a friend like that, listen, she gets men... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted June 25, 2014 Share Posted June 25, 2014 I was chatting to my sister on the phone in a coffee shop while watching this obese lady eating cupcakes and drinking hot chocolate. She looked the unhappiest thing in the world just eating to feed her hunger, hating every minute of it, you could see it on her face. It's not a way to live. No-one can convince me that very large people are happy. The discomfort, providing constant calories that your body demands. Your outside is a reflection of who you are inside. Engaging in codependent relationships with alcoholics would be one reason to be very unhappy. You need to break some habits there OP. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EverLastluv Posted June 25, 2014 Author Share Posted June 25, 2014 I was chatting to my sister on the phone in a coffee shop while watching this obese lady eating cupcakes and drinking hot chocolate. She looked the unhappiest thing in the world just eating to feed her hunger, hating every minute of it, you could see it on her face. It's not a way to live. No-one can convince me that very large people are happy. The discomfort, providing constant calories that your body demands. Your outside is a reflection of who you are inside. Engaging in codependent relationships with alcoholics would be one reason to be very unhappy. You need to break some habits there OP. There is all different kind of large women out there.... ones that totally let themself go to 300-400lb with NO REASON at all then they become unhappy. Some of them who stay in a unhealthy relationship the rest of their lifes just because of LOVE gaining weight. There is BBW who lovesss them self, even when they were smaller to when they got bigger. I seen slim woman that is totaly disgusting. So size dont matter, when it comes to what you are from the inside. Thanks for sharing Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted June 25, 2014 Share Posted June 25, 2014 There is all different kind of large women out there.... ones that totally let themself go to 300-400lb with NO REASON at all then they become unhappy. Some of them who stay in a unhealthy relationship the rest of their lifes just because of LOVE gaining weight. There is BBW who lovesss them self, even when they were smaller to when they got bigger. I seen slim woman that is totaly disgusting. So size dont matter, when it comes to what you are from the inside. Thanks for sharing So, going from 190 to 269 isn't letting yourself go, but when you hit 300 it is? You're really close, do you realize that? I can tell you stories about what we see in patients who are carrying an extra 100 pounds, the joint damage, diabetes, high blood pressure, hygiene problems. BTW, that is considered morbidly obese. Do a favor for your kid if not yourself, lose it, or a least a good part of it. I think you'd *still* be happy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EverLastluv Posted June 26, 2014 Author Share Posted June 26, 2014 So, going from 190 to 269 isn't letting yourself go, but when you hit 300 it is? You're really close, do you realize that? I can tell you stories about what we see in patients who are carrying an extra 100 pounds, the joint damage, diabetes, high blood pressure, hygiene problems. BTW, that is considered morbidly obese. Do a favor for your kid if not yourself, lose it, or a least a good part of it. I think you'd *still* be happy. Yes, I do realize thanks for the health advise. Link to post Share on other sites
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