confusedcal Posted February 16, 2005 Share Posted February 16, 2005 I have been having an issue as of late. I have a friend who I am very attracted to. I however don't quite know how she feels. We met each alittle over a year ago. Since then she has joined the CO-ED Fraternity I am a member of. I talk to her daily and eat lunches with her every Tuesday and Thursday after our classes. She comes over to my apartment at least twice a week just to watch TV with me and my roomie. One night when she was alittle drunk she meantioned that her best friend told her she should date me and she told me that she couldn't because A. she "knew" I wasn't interested and b. we were just friends. I assumed she kinda liked me with just that information but there are some things that confuse me. She daily tells me she can't stand me and I annoy her though I guess if that was true she wouldn't come by so much. We Practically do everything together. she gives me her schedule the first chance she gets every year. She has recently broken up with her old B/F about 2 or 3 months ago. but she is by far the most attractive and greatest girls in this area, so I figure she will have a new b/f before too long. I guess I just don't know what to do; do I ask her out? If I do will it mess up our friendship which I value greatly. But It's hard not to want to be more. Is she interested? or just likes hanging out? does she know I like her and is trying to tell me not to ask her out? . . . . I think you all get the idea any suggestions I would really appreciate thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Reactant Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 Hmm...I was in similar position as u were just last week. Though from reading all of the details of the things she does with u and says to u, all flags are a go go go. Just understand (and maybe u shouldnt read this line...so stop now if u got the answer u wanted) after asking her out, regardless of what she says, things wont be the same, friendship wise. I posted a thread asking the same question as u did. Its titled "A girl fit to make u go insane!" Link to post Share on other sites
SuperFantastico Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 Sure ask her out. Worst thing that will happen is things will get wierd for a while, but at least you will know either way. Seems like she might like you anyways. Go for it. Link to post Share on other sites
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