Baby123 Posted June 21, 2014 Share Posted June 21, 2014 (edited) Just to let you guys in on my update mm is now divorced! So as the story went: Me and mm met and he left the bs within 2 months Things were good between us but the age gap and me moving further away from him caused problems The BS took an overdose whilst I was travelling. Mm was under intense pressure to reconcile. They went on a family holiday I broke up with him and started dating a single man but mm came back into the picture and swore he would divorce officially and he couldn't live his life for others. It's been a tough road and I have struggled to forgive the betrayal so have been a nightmare gf. The bs finally found a bf and is moving a few hours away and mms kids are ole enough to stay put His divorce came through on Monday! If I could turn the clock back I would advise running when your in the early faze of an A. You might land your man but the devastation the A caused with the baggage is likely to leave everyone wounded. Spend your time on a single guy. The drama I have faced getting to this point took me to my lowest. My hair fell out, I gained weight and I became an unstable person. He is lovley and I don't believe just because he has made mistakes he is evil. But I just know that this year and a half has been the worst of my life. High highs and low lows. Hopefully it's all ending now. Edited June 21, 2014 by Baby123 2 Link to post Share on other sites
sisa Posted June 22, 2014 Share Posted June 22, 2014 so you don't plan to be with him again? few MM divorce in the end. If you still love him, why not get back and start building heathy relationship, now is not affair anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Baby123 Posted June 22, 2014 Author Share Posted June 22, 2014 We are together and I love him very much- He kept every promise since I gave him another chance and most importantly his promise to D. Just I really believe that the last 2 years has taken so much from me that it hasn't been worth it. I wish i'd have told him to just come back divorced- instead of going through everything with him. I still feel the hurt even though I have my man. To all women out there- the pleasure is not worth the pain. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted June 23, 2014 Share Posted June 23, 2014 Unfortunately, the drama isn't likely ending now. Has his family all accepted you? Is his ex truly and completely removed from his life? The two of you now have to find a new dynamic for being together...one not hinged on the affair. Don't take me wrong...some have done it successfully...there are a few posters here on LS that I know have done so. But many do not. As you said...everyone at this point is wounded in some fashion. Work on healing...and hopefully things will turn out for the best for all of you. Link to post Share on other sites
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