April Posted February 9, 2001 Share Posted February 9, 2001 This is my story.. I have been with my guy for 10 years.. wonderful relationship talking about having a kid. sorry to say for the past few month my interest in sex and grown to a minum.. He's great in bed always doing thing to intes me and always looking for new ventures. But there are days where I am totally not interested in sex. sometimes weeks will go by and I'm not horney. We still do it and I do give him my all but then I feel drain and guilty because I'm not totally statisfy mentally. I don't know what I should do we talk about any and everything but I don't know how he will handle this. Link to post Share on other sites
ashesmum Posted February 9, 2001 Share Posted February 9, 2001 There's gotta be a reason why you don't feel up to a little nooky. Are fatigued by the end of the night and just want to go to sleep? Is he not paying enough attention to you which makes you mad? Maybe there isn't any romance and you've just "blahhed" out. Or maybe the discussion about having a baby has alot of thoughts in your head. Are you still in love with him? How have you been feeling in your life? Have you had alot of personal problems? figure out what's taking up your mind and then talk to your man about it. This is my story.. I have been with my guy for 10 years.. wonderful relationship talking about having a kid. sorry to say for the past few month my interest in sex and grown to a minum.. He's great in bed always doing thing to intes me and always looking for new ventures. But there are days where I am totally not interested in sex. sometimes weeks will go by and I'm not horney. We still do it and I do give him my all but then I feel drain and guilty because I'm not totally statisfy mentally. I don't know what I should do we talk about any and everything but I don't know how he will handle this. Link to post Share on other sites
april Posted February 9, 2001 Share Posted February 9, 2001 Thank's for answering.. I must admit that he pays me alot of attention .. I have absolutly no problems with him I think it's all I my head.. I am very tire after work, and I have new thing in my life .. taking care of my brother and one of his freinds that's having problems at home.. so I basically live with my husband and 2 16 year olds.. so I guess I could be it. So should I just talk to him or should I just put it on the back burner and hope It will go away Link to post Share on other sites
sparkle Posted February 10, 2001 Share Posted February 10, 2001 So should I just talk to him or should I just put it on the back burner and hope It will go away Talk to him! Talk to him! Talk to him! Issues put on the back burner don't go away! They just sit there and slowly grow hotter and hotter and hotter till one day they boil over and turn into a huge mess. Tell him what's bothering you. Tell him how you feel about it. Ask him if it's bothering him too or his feelings about it. Talk to him about how two can work it out. Having known you for 10 years, I'm almost 100% sure he would rather hear what's on your mind than have you keep it from him. Link to post Share on other sites
Don Posted February 10, 2001 Share Posted February 10, 2001 Possibly you have a vitiman difficiency. Don This is my story.. I have been with my guy for 10 years.. wonderful relationship talking about having a kid. sorry to say for the past few month my interest in sex and grown to a minum.. He's great in bed always doing thing to intes me and always looking for new ventures. But there are days where I am totally not interested in sex. sometimes weeks will go by and I'm not horney. We still do it and I do give him my all but then I feel drain and guilty because I'm not totally statisfy mentally. I don't know what I should do we talk about any and everything but I don't know how he will handle this. Link to post Share on other sites
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