blinkster Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 So theres this girl i work with she broke up with her boyfriend about 2 weeks ago because she found out he was cheating on her, in the last 2-3weeks we've been seeing alot of each other and not just at work for example going out for dinner, movies, etc at the time she classed it as "dates" and that shes been really enjoying the time we've spent together, i just assumed it was 2 friends hanging out to be honest but anyway the other night she got quite drunk and went into some long thing about how much she fancys me, and then she got all embarrassed told me to just ignore her and she hasn't mentioned any of what she said that night since and this was only a week ago, its got to the point now where she also stays over mine (i live in an apartment above work) happily strips off gets into bed next to me, cuddles the whole package, I haven't made any passes on her apart from kissing her on the cheek occasionally to say good night or goodbye, but ever since she admited to "fancing" me shes got kind of distant and i can't really work out why? like at the moment she'll be all comfortable and jolly around everyone else but to me she'll be all quiet and kind of shy. I'm gonna just confront her and tell her that i actually like her, but I'm really **** at this how womens minds work, I can't really tell if she actually does like me, because all I have running through my head right now is the fact I'm probably just some rebound sort of thing because her boyfriend cheated on her, or she did actually like me and between her telling me she fancied me and now maybe shes realised shes only prefers me as a friend? if that makes sense, just wanted to get someone elses opinion, I haven't made any passes on her as of yet such as tried to kiss her lips or try touch her in bed because i understand it must be hard for her right now be it she only broke up with her boyfriend 2-3weeks ago Link to post Share on other sites
Assasda Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 She like/liked you in the beginning, but she doesnt respect you because you dont have any balls. Dont confront her and tell any of your "feelings" thats the worst thing you could do. - Here you have this girl liking you, and youve been just friendzoning yourself, over all this time Link to post Share on other sites
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