Lucy4224 Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 Hey there, so I posted a few months back about a guy I liked at uni. He had mostly been contacting me first since April time over Facebook with mostly general chat about uni work and so on. Recently, he has been more casual with me going from messaging me about uni to normal every day stuff so he seems more relaxed. About five days ago, he was away with friends and he got quite drunk even though he was messaging me before he got drunk. Whilst drunk, he started asking me out on dates and saying we need to meet up when he gets back and stuff. So the next morning, he was messaging me normally again and the final day of his holiday he messaged me all day with no mention of the drunken messages. He has been going like this since and I don't want to risk asking him incase he freaks out or something. I really need some advice and help on what I should do next. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Awesome Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 How do you know he got drunk if he never mentioned the messages? He just told you about the being drunk part? I think you should do one of two things. Either ask him casually about the messages and whether he meant what he said, or don't mention them but ask him if he wants to meet up and go out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucy4224 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Share Posted June 24, 2014 I know he was drunk because whilst he was messaging me that night he told me he was drunk. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 Do you know this person IRL? I'd be bored & annoyed by now with all the electronic messaging BS if there were no actual in person interactions. If he's back send him something that says something along the lines of You mentioned getting together. What works for you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucy4224 Posted June 24, 2014 Author Share Posted June 24, 2014 I know him in real life yes its just whilst we are at home for break, we live a little further from each other making it harder to just go see him Link to post Share on other sites
Omei Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 Just ask him if he ment what he said... It's likely he did it while he had whiskey courage. And he hasn't forgotten he did it, he can read and see them the next day im sure. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Smarty Pants Posted June 24, 2014 Share Posted June 24, 2014 Just ask him if he ment what he said... It's likely he did it while he had whiskey courage. And he hasn't forgotten he did it, he can read and see them the next day im sure. Agreed. He might be a little embarrassed which is why he did it when we was drunk. Just ask him. Link to post Share on other sites
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