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I asked my boyfriend "nothing really happened" what that would mean to him, he replied something did happen.

 

so then i question this as to this is what he said aweek ago about an ex girlfirend who was still a friend after three years, he was still friends with her when i came on the seen. Exact quote was "nothing really happened, it was all innocent".

 

cut a long story short we had a blazing row this morning, he swore on his daughters life and said that there was nothing going on and that he had no respect for this women what so ever.

 

I threatened to go round her house and have it out with her, to which he replied he didnt know where she lived and told me it up to me and that he couldnt convince me no more that nothing had gone on.

 

he phoned me when he got to work, to ask me if its over and said he didnt want us to finish.

 

thoughts and advice please

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Never trust anyone that keeps their ex's, fwb, friends that they've been intimate with before in the picture, or makes mysterious new "friends".

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A cheater usually won't tell you the truth. And the post above once again, friends with exes or FWB's are a heavy red flag.

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My opinion? Sure, something happened. Something that didn't mean much to him, like a kiss or a BJ, or even intercourse. He gave it away with the "really". You posted about that before, now it's time to find someone who's not cheating and lying.

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Something happened and it's gross that he would swear on his daughter's life while knowing something happened. Take this chance to get out of this relationship.

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I always wonder about people who want to confront their partner's EXs. The fact that you threatened to go to her house, was a big negative to me.

 

 

If you don't believe him, end it.

 

 

If you believe him, drop it.

 

 

Confronting his EX & creating all that drama is over the top.

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