Mr.Bungle90 Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Hello guys! First of all, nice to meet you all. I've been a long time visitor of some of the forums here (some of the things that I've read have been very very helpful to me), but I've never posted anything. Anyway, long story short, my ex called me yesterday night completely out of the blue breaking a NC of about a year. We were together for 4 & 1/2 years and we broke up about 2 years ago. She broke up with me, but not on bad terms. In the meantime our only communication was some casual text messages or emails on birthdays. I 've seen on FB that she had a boyfriend for some time and I've had a girlfriend myself (though I'm single since January). Yesterday night at around 3am a private number calls me and I can tell it's her and apparently a little bit drunk too. She doesn't tell me her name, only says that she's the greatest love of my life, my one and only and stuff like that:rolleyes:. I'd recognised her voice right from the get-go, but I played along for a while, until I got tired of this "game" calling her by her name. She completely denied it and tried to move the conversation to other topics without ever revealing her identity. About half an hour full of ridiculous bulsh*tting from both sides later we hung up in good spirits. Anyway, that's it. That got me very confused to the point that I've thought about calling her and trying to figure out what happened. What do you guys think? Was it just a call from a drunk ex or could it be something more? Link to post Share on other sites
Tressugar Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Don't you just love those blocked numbers at odd hours of the morning? I do. Just keep on keeping on. Link to post Share on other sites
Doicare Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 that's a bit of a head scratcher. Not sure what to say. On the one hand you could do one of two things: 1) a msg, and just say thanks for the 3 am call, nice to hear you voice it's been a while, how are things? or 2) just wait until she contacts you again. if you use 1) you can smoke her out and gauge her interest, and possibly flirt. or 2) if she's really interested she'll be back in touch. Seeing as you had a funny upbeat and light conversation, I don't see why she would be afraid to call you up again. id maybe lean towards option 2. if she really is interested, she will contact you. rinse and repeat! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr.Bungle90 Posted June 30, 2014 Author Share Posted June 30, 2014 Yeah nothing like it! The thing is she used to do that when we were still together to keep tabs on my whereabouts. And don't get me started on the drunk calls... My god did I love those! Any thoughts though guys? Should I just let it be or could there be something more to it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mr.Bungle90 Posted June 30, 2014 Author Share Posted June 30, 2014 Thanks for the input Doicare! Option 1. is the exact msg that I've been meaning to send her:laugh:!! Oh and sorry for creating this thread in the Second Chances forum.I know it doesn't fit well with the rest of the content, but I didn't know where else to do it Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts