Ygritte Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 We're both in loveless marriages, have kids and fell for each other. EA slowly turned into a PA. His wife was on to him & caught us together. We weren't in a compromising situation. It was a normal situation. Anyway, he never admitted to anymore more than a friendship. I didn't say anything to her and now she wants me fired. That's a possibility. She has no proof of our relationship, only speculation. He's now trying to save his marriage & do any damage control possible which includes NC for us. We do work together so we have work contact. We never expected to leave our spouses at all. It's almost like we were together in a past life - like this has happened before. I feel very Nonphased by it but completely saddened because I'm losing a friend. Obviously his relationship at home is more important than our relationship. He's offered to find a new job if need be. I'm just dumbstruck. But I can't help but feel like I'm reliving a past life. Link to post Share on other sites
Elle1975 Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 We're both in loveless marriages, have kids and fell for each other. EA slowly turned into a PA. His wife was on to him & caught us together. We weren't in a compromising situation. It was a normal situation. Anyway, he never admitted to anymore more than a friendship. I didn't say anything to her and now she wants me fired. That's a possibility. She has no proof of our relationship, only speculation. He's now trying to save his marriage & do any damage control possible which includes NC for us. We do work together so we have work contact. We never expected to leave our spouses at all. It's almost like we were together in a past life - like this has happened before. I feel very Nonphased by it but completely saddened because I'm losing a friend. Obviously his relationship at home is more important than our relationship. He's offered to find a new job if need be. I'm just dumbstruck. But I can't help but feel like I'm reliving a past life.What's a normal situation? My guess is that he's offered you to find a new job to get rid of you. About your job, don't admit to anything but friendship. Only advice I can offer is to talk to your husband and tackle the "loveless" issue that you are going through. I don't believe in fate, past lives, "meant to be" kind of deal. It's a dangerous thing to believe in, because it will probably make you assume things that are there with this guy. He's working it out with his wife, that's what I'd be looking at. Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Just go NC and continue on with your life. Disregard the " his wife wants me fired " part. She has no power over that. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 I'd start job hunting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ygritte Posted June 30, 2014 Author Share Posted June 30, 2014 What's a normal situation? Post work beers (on the job site) Link to post Share on other sites
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