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Me and my boyfriend have been together since high school. We've broken up a couple of times and for a while during our first year in college. I was completely done with him during the time we were in college, and then like always he crawls back into my life saying how important I am to him and wins me back.

 

Things were perfect for a couple of months and he would surprise me with visits and shower me in gifts. Eventually things would go back to normal and we would distance ourselves but he would still be super sweet and put me first.

 

The thing is that whenever we broke up it would be either before winter break or summer break where he would go visit his family. And so convientently his ex girlfriend lived near them too, so you could imagine why we would break up.

 

Well he's back visiting his family for the summer. Before he left, we spent a couple weeks together and he was super nice and whenever we did discuss things he told me he wanted to get through the summer and to trust him. He's told me before that I have all of his love and he wouldn't go back to his ex if I was in the picture, but sometimes it's hard to believe him with all that we've been through.

 

I know he's been hanging out with his ex with all of his friends and family. Their families are really close so I understand but I feel like he just isn't talking about it with me and being completely honest.

 

Whenever I try to talk about it with him he just shuts down or tells me to stop yelling at him. He's also been distant these past couple of days and won't text me as much, doesn't call me at all, and ignores my texts.

 

I am starting to give up again since I have been miserable for the past couple of days and can't handle going through the same thing again. As soon as I tell him I'm gonna leave him alone he's concerned all of a sudden. It seems like he is just messing with my head and wants to enjoy his summer and still have me after. Ive been trying to contact him so we can work through this but i feel like my efforts arnt being reciprocated. Should I stop trying, cut all contact, and move on? He means a lot to me but not enough to go through his roller coaster again.

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What's the question here?

 

It's obvious. Stop torturing yourself during every off-season. It's a cycle, break the cycle.

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