Cheating Grilfriend should never have another chance??

[Miss Blushs]

I m 22yrs old! My boyfrnd is 26 yrs old . We have been in a long distance relation for 3 yrs and recently he moved into my city!

He is working n very responsible and busy man! yet very suspicious about me!!

 

In the beginning I lied to him that I made out with a guy before I met him and I wanted to break up cause I didnt like him at tht point!! From then he became more suspicious!

 

When he came to my city, we hardly meet due his work and dude to night shift he couldn't even talk or text properly. He was emotionally shut to me! Its been more than a 2 years he has kissed me. he has been doing so many duties and working really hard.

This is when I met a guy through some crap site I texted to that guy all the time and he was there for me. making feel like special!

 

I flashed my tits for him on video call!! The guy stopped talking to me! I confessed to my boyfriend and he said I dont consider you as my girlfriend but I would still talk to you as friend and help you in getting a job(I m jobless graduate who lives with parents:(:()

 

He is not angry and acts like it doesn't bother him! But he behaves with me like a friend. I dont deserve him and I dont want to disturb him!

 

I cant stay away from him. While I was talking to other guy , it didnt bother me if my boyfriend didnt talk to me for a day or two but now I cry every night!! I feel extremely guilty!!

 

Can I be forgiven?? Cheater always a cheater so I should never get romantically involved ?? can we get back together??(I m being selfish)

 

Is leaving him alone is the only option to make him feel better??

Should stop talking to him?:(:(

Edited July 1, 2014 by Miss Blushs

[giblesp]

I'll be honest and say you sound way younger than 22. Anyway...

 

Be honest with the man you're currently interested in, tell him exactly what happened.

 

That's the only way the air can be cleared to either start again with renewed commitment, or part ways.

[carrie_o]

I cant stay away from him. While I was talking to other guy , it didnt bother me if my boyfriend didnt talk to me for a day or two but now I cry every night!!

 

It sounds like you NEED the attention from a partner. Long distance or very busy boyfriends are not for you. I would suggest working on yourself so that you don't rely on validation from outside sources. If you aren't willing to put forth the effort to do that, at the very least, date someone who has time to spend with you. Don't chase after your ex. You will only end up hurting him again.

[d0nnivain]

If this man hasn't kissed you in two years & he told you that you are only his friend & he doesn't make time for you, you didn't not cheat on him with this other guy because he hasn't been your BF for a very long time.

 

You do need to learn to like yourself & feel special in your own skin without the need to get approvale from men because you flash your boobs at them.

 

Please note, since you did that & the man who you did that for over video stopped interacting with you after wards, that guy isn't your new BF either & he doesn't want the job.

[Miss Blushs]

I understand that I have to work my morals and get stronger ethics!!

 

Get some self esteem!!

 

But the thing is he wants be friends and he said OK for me to talk to him!

 

I talk to him too much and he sounds disinterested & closed!!

 

I don't get the fact about being friends ?? and I end up behaving like I did before ??

 

I can't understand why he want to be friends even after he said he doesn't want to continue the relation