mouse21 Posted July 2, 2014 Share Posted July 2, 2014 We were friends and now he's completely giving me the cold shoulder. It's almost as if he goes out of his way to avoid me? I don't know what i did wrong. I asked him about it and his response was "just busy" which I know is BS because he talks to everyone besides me. It's very uncomfortable for me at work right now. My gut is telling me "who cares" but I do care at least to know why? Whatever the answer is will be but I hate cowardly people who can't even bring themselves to be honest with someone. PS.... we did have a few sexual encounters this past year... but we had both agreed that we would remain friends (his request) and that it wouldn't affect our work relationship but I think it has. Am I just a complete fool?? lol I must be... Thanks for any input that you may offer. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted July 3, 2014 Share Posted July 3, 2014 I think once you have sex with someone it takes a lot of effort to turn that back to platonic friendship......especially if there are feelings on one side...do you have feelings for him......and no i don't think he is being cowardly he told you friendship only i think he might be finding it awkward that isn't corwardly...i think you should approach him and clear the air......deb Link to post Share on other sites
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