The best way to meet women in college classes?

[kolleamm]

I know this question may seem relatively straight forward however I do believe it merits some rethinking.

 

Often I will just take a class for an entire semester, see attractive women in it, and do absolutely nothing about it. There always seems to be an excuse.

 

She sits too far away.

No point approaching her now class is about to start.

No that's a bad thing to say.

She's on her phone texting.

 

So in short, how and where do you think it is the best way to meet a girl in your class?

 

Before, During, or After?

 

Would love to see some opinions and strategies,

Thanks in advance.

[kolleamm]

First, you need to stop looking for reasons NOT to talk to women, and look for reasons TO talk to her.

 

You don't want to approach women and be obvious you're trying to hit on them. That doesn't work for me as well as just talking to them in a casual way.

 

Do well in class. Very well, if you can. Good grades will get some women interested in you.

 

Contribute to any classroom discussion in an intelligent way. I used to have little debates with my professor sometimes, and I had women tell me after class they agreed with me.

 

Form study groups. I don't care if you need help with your grades or not, they might. I've helped quite a few people with exams and projects. A couple of them became interested in me.

 

Not bad, that's actually pretty solid advice, thanks!

[somedude81]

Here's a little something I learned about humans from spending many years in college.

 

Humans are creatures of habit and like routines. The most simple way this expresses itself is in, when possible people like to sit in the same seat every time.

 

So what I like to do is, during the first couple days of class, if not the first day, look around and note where all the pretty girls are sitting. The next day try and get a spot right next to where a girl you are interested in was sitting. More often than not she will sit in the same spot again, right next to you. Say hi to her. This works especially well when you know that a girl likes to sit in the same spot. Don't be afraid to take somebody else's "spot" in the middle of the semester either.

 

I have made many "class buddies" this way with women. Unfortunately my game isn't that good and I've been mostly unsuccessful in turning a class buddy into a date.

[somedude81]

It all worked for me. I'm in my mid 30's and I had women in their early 20's hitting on me this way. I'm not rich, nor a great looking guy either. The last girl to hit on me this past semester was beautiful. Dumb as a brick, but beautiful lol.

 

Depending on your degree, you may get a lot of opportunities with the same women. Pretty much everyone in my program here became friends because we have so many classes together.

For some reason it didn't work with me.

 

I frequently spoke up in my last class and I got an A on every single test. Hell, the class was a human behavior class so the professor went out of his way to acknowledge everybody who got A's on the exams and made us all stand up as he called our names.

 

Not a single woman approached me asking for help.

[somedude81]

You may have to work harder to make them want to approach you then. I'm always friendly, chatty, and open during class. People were already talking to me, when they saw my grades, they wanted to study together too. If you see anyone who is struggling with your classes, offer to study with them. Male or female. I offered to study with one girl from class and we ended up having me and 4 women in a study group one day. Once you get into their little circles, you still have to give them a reason to want to date you.

 

That's a great point.

 

Last semester was one of the rare times that I got good grades in a class. But unfortunately I was still really down from getting dumped by my ex and I wasn't nearly as sociable. There are other classes where I was really friendly and chatty but I got horrible grades. I had a couple of girls help me in the class, but I know it's nowhere as near as attractive when you are the one who needs help.

 

There were other classes where I was in a few circles that were like four girls and then me. But of course I never gave them a reason to date me, and they probably thought of me as one of the girls This was before I got my first GF and didn't know how to sexually express myself or flirt.

[kolleamm]

Here's a little something I learned about humans from spending many years in college.

 

Humans are creatures of habit and like routines. The most simple way this expresses itself is in, when possible people like to sit in the same seat every time.

 

So what I like to do is, during the first couple days of class, if not the first day, look around and note where all the pretty girls are sitting. The next day try and get a spot right next to where a girl you are interested in was sitting. More often than not she will sit in the same spot again, right next to you. Say hi to her. This works especially well when you know that a girl likes to sit in the same spot. Don't be afraid to take somebody else's "spot" in the middle of the semester either.

 

I have made many "class buddies" this way with women. Unfortunately my game isn't that good and I've been mostly unsuccessful in turning a class buddy into a date.

 

That's pure gold