tegteg Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 Well she broke up with me, no real reason just "Something says to just be friends" well i had a hard time with it, but moved on... Well she ends up contacting me after 1+yrs and @ 12 in the morn. Just to ask ?s bout her car. Kinda wired i thought but what ever, so i helped her with her car and what not. We chatted every now and then when she would txt or call me... Not much just hows it going etc... Well some how i ended up taking her to lunch, and i instantly felt that spark again with her, but i knew not to let it get to me. Dont know if she felt it or not. But we had a good talk over lunch. Well a week later she came by and had to leave her car at my shop, and she end up taking me to lunch this time. Well again good time with each other talking... Well i dropped her off @ work. Finished my day and fixed her car took it to her at work down the road, and ended up chattin for sometime, and i felt it was good, soo i asked what she was doing on her day off after i got off, and would she like to go out to a movie. She said yes. So we go and get there and on the way in she wraps her arm around mine. Good sign I guess, movie went well i drop her off. Didnt talk to her for 3 days, she txt me saying her Bday is coming up im like yeah i know i wouldnt forget your bday its the 12th. She asks if i want to go racing karts with her and freinds, then if we could go over to a old friend of mines house to kick back and chill.. I call my bro, and hes like sure come over.. Well me and her get over there and him and her take a couple shots (i dont drink) and we watched movies most the nite and talk.. Well she ends up passin out just cause shes exhausted. So i carry her to my bros spare room and lay her down on the bed, as im walkin out she says sleep with me? WHAAAAT? Uhhhh ok... Well i ended up layin next to her till she was asleep bout 1min later haha, and i went back out and asked if it was cool if i/we sleept in there and stayed the nite, hes like o no prob, just take care of her like i know you will... i was like thx bro... We ended up chatted for a hr then he passed out on the sofa... Well i went in there with her and my body said lay nex to her and my mide said WHAT IF SHE? well i said screw the "what if she", and laid next to her. She didnt hardly move all nite (i didnt sleep) and so i rubbed/masasued(sp?) her back and hands... Well she woke up bout 8 and was lookin into my eyes and i thought i should kiss her, but i didnt i just closed my eyes like i was tierd. BUT i have been sick cough cough. That why no atempt.. Well i got her home and all was well... I ended up calling her the next day and askin her if she was ok and she was doing something with anyone for V-day and she said no. Well i asked if she would like to go for a dinner and a movie. Which she said yes. Well V-day i go to pick her up with 1 red rose and a Tbear and me just bout fainting... I was all GOO GOO GAA GAA And i let her know she was uhhh DROP DEAD GEORGOUS..... She said she had not really cared latly bout what she weres and what not, but when i called to tell her i would be there to pick her up after work she said she was doing the does this go good with this and this and that,, hahaha women are funny... Well we went to dinner (itailan as is she) and then a moive (Hitch, 2 thumbs up) all went well cept for me coughin. A reason i didnt kiss her or her try and kiss me????? Shes has gotten MUCH harder to read now dayz, so im needing advise.... PLS PPL...... Soo now its 4 days since i have talked to her......... 1. Should i call or txt her to see how she is? OR wait longer 2. All of the above said, ladies what does that sound like to you? Just really good friends, or maybe a lil something more again? 3. Should i ask her to go out on a date and another movie or something? And go for it? 4. Should i just stright up ask her were me and her stand? And any other ideas....... Sorry so long......... TIA Again Link to post Share on other sites
Drewpy Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 If I were in the situation I would call, keep it friendly, tell her you had a good time and then see how the conversation goes from her and then if you get stuck, then bring up that you have to do something, i.e. fake it and then get off the phone and see what she says prior to you getting off the phone. If she doesn't ask for plans then I would think the balls in her court to call you. Link to post Share on other sites
Drewpy Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 sorry I am not a lady, but thats my man perspective. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 Now, everybody, this is how your suppose to do it and tegteg does it with a good example. Everything Tegteg is doing is 100% how your suppose to do it. He's doing it with style and also giving her space by not calling everyday and letting her do the calling. Teg, I say just keep doing what your doing, but honestly it seems she really likes you again. I say next date, go for it. Drop her off and do the magical kiss and see if she goes alittle bit toward you when you kiss her, only way you know if she does really want you again. But, as for phone calls and stuff, your doing a great job with it, keep it up. Remember, its like meeting someone again, but this time its with her, keep it up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted February 19, 2005 Author Share Posted February 19, 2005 Whew......... THX for the encouragement guys..... Im just doing what i feel is right with my heart.... Just kinda happens with a lil fore thought involved and not letting the exciment get to me.. Kinda like racing for me, if you think clear, focus on the situation at hand and know the YOU WILL succeed it just happens...... hehe.... Nick14 U seem to be very umm educated bout things of these matters, how is this? Just Experiance? Age? Just a wondering, cause i thought for the longest time i THOUGHT i had most women fig. out and how to deal with them in most situations. BUT i was WRROOONG hahaha emotion has a funny way of getting in the way sometimes hehehe.... :bow: 2 both of you. Thats what i needed Any others out there with anymore advise befor i call her up... PLS lend me you thoughts if any... THX again......... Teg Link to post Share on other sites
sundrop Posted February 19, 2005 Share Posted February 19, 2005 I think she is interested in you and maybe a little confused as to her feelings.... I think you are doing a great job, keep giving her the space she needs to sort out her feelings, but let her know you are still there. You don't have to spill your heart out to her... Just keep doing what you are doing and being friendly..... May a kiss wouldn't hurt..... Best of luck..... I would love a chance like this to be back with my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted February 20, 2005 Author Share Posted February 20, 2005 Well i called her last nite after work and told me to call her back in 30min (i was just gettin in the shower and she was drving home) well i call her 45min later and the fone just rang. So i called again 5 min later again nothin. So i waited another 15min and called back but this time it went straight to her v-mail. I said well either your your turned off your fone or its dead. If ya still wanna talk ill be up late or call me tomarrow... I just fig. she didnt wanna talk. But again i was WRONG haha she txt me an hr and half later, saying sorry her fone died.... Just dont know why it took her so long to get back to me? Anywho it looks like im goin to take her up to my buds house to learn to snowboard... She asked me last nite if i would teach her i said sure, when? As soon as i can get time off she said... Soooo theres goin to be another chance agian and it will be alone besides my buddie..... Just not sure how to approch it.... Guess i should just let things ride eh? teggy Link to post Share on other sites
sundrop Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 My advice, Just enjoy yourself and see where it goes. Don't push the issue. Be friendly and enjoy your time with her. Let things happen on there own. When you try to push things you ed up pushing them away. (trust me I have learned from this) Have fun, enjoy each others company..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted February 21, 2005 Author Share Posted February 21, 2005 Sundrop: Cool will do.... I think something is bothering her tho, just dont know what. Wish i could help.... Owell Im goin to call her tomarrow and see if she wants to go out and relax and maybe i may will see whats up........ But i am excited now to go boarding with her. Were goin for a couple days so i guess that should show me a lil more i guess... Thanks guys for all the wonderful advise..... Teggy Link to post Share on other sites
ddindc Posted April 1, 2005 Share Posted April 1, 2005 Just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tegteg Posted April 2, 2005 Author Share Posted April 2, 2005 Wow old post.....Uhh well if this is reference to my part2... then.... no not that i can remember... but i did just get out of the hospital if you have any info thats better that would be grrreat yaaa.... Link to post Share on other sites
theone44 Posted April 16, 2005 Share Posted April 16, 2005 Originally posted by tegteg Well she broke up with me, no real reason just "Something says to just be friends" well i had a hard time with it, but moved on... Well she ends up contacting me after 1+yrs and @ 12 in the morn. Just to ask ?s bout her car. Kinda wired i thought but what ever, so i helped her with her car and what not. We chatted every now and then when she would txt or call me... Not much just hows it going etc... Well some how i ended up taking her to lunch, and i instantly felt that spark again with her, but i knew not to let it get to me. Dont know if she felt it or not. But we had a good talk over lunch. Well a week later she came by and had to leave her car at my shop, and she end up taking me to lunch this time. Well again good time with each other talking... Well i dropped her off @ work. Finished my day and fixed her car took it to her at work down the road, and ended up chattin for sometime, and i felt it was good, soo i asked what she was doing on her day off after i got off, and would she like to go out to a movie. She said yes. So we go and get there and on the way in she wraps her arm around mine. Good sign I guess, movie went well i drop her off. Didnt talk to her for 3 days, she txt me saying her Bday is coming up im like yeah i know i wouldnt forget your bday its the 12th. She asks if i want to go racing karts with her and freinds, then if we could go over to a old friend of mines house to kick back and chill.. I call my bro, and hes like sure come over.. Well me and her get over there and him and her take a couple shots (i dont drink) and we watched movies most the nite and talk.. Well she ends up passin out just cause shes exhausted. So i carry her to my bros spare room and lay her down on the bed, as im walkin out she says sleep with me? WHAAAAT? Uhhhh ok... Well i ended up layin next to her till she was asleep bout 1min later haha, and i went back out and asked if it was cool if i/we sleept in there and stayed the nite, hes like o no prob, just take care of her like i know you will... i was like thx bro... We ended up chatted for a hr then he passed out on the sofa... Well i went in there with her and my body said lay nex to her and my mide said WHAT IF SHE? well i said screw the "what if she", and laid next to her. She didnt hardly move all nite (i didnt sleep) and so i rubbed/masasued(sp?) her back and hands... Well she woke up bout 8 and was lookin into my eyes and i thought i should kiss her, but i didnt i just closed my eyes like i was tierd. BUT i have been sick cough cough. That why no atempt.. Well i got her home and all was well... I ended up calling her the next day and askin her if she was ok and she was doing something with anyone for V-day and she said no. Well i asked if she would like to go for a dinner and a movie. Which she said yes. Well V-day i go to pick her up with 1 red rose and a Tbear and me just bout fainting... I was all GOO GOO GAA GAA And i let her know she was uhhh DROP DEAD GEORGOUS..... She said she had not really cared latly bout what she weres and what not, but when i called to tell her i would be there to pick her up after work she said she was doing the does this go good with this and this and that,, hahaha women are funny... Well we went to dinner (itailan as is she) and then a moive (Hitch, 2 thumbs up) all went well cept for me coughin. A reason i didnt kiss her or her try and kiss me????? Shes has gotten MUCH harder to read now dayz, so im needing advise.... PLS PPL...... Soo now its 4 days since i have talked to her......... 1. Should i call or txt her to see how she is? OR wait longer 2. All of the above said, ladies what does that sound like to you? Just really good friends, or maybe a lil something more again? 3. Should i ask her to go out on a date and another movie or something? And go for it? 4. Should i just stright up ask her were me and her stand? And any other ideas....... Sorry so long......... TIA Again Man just lay back and play it cool for a while. if u rush too quickly then she going to think u is to easy... just step back,and let come to you,but just play hard to get(in a good way) for a while,but let her talk about the relationship,and getting back together not you. Man this situation is in your hand,and don't blow it... "Good luck" and be bless. Link to post Share on other sites
theone44 Posted April 16, 2005 Share Posted April 16, 2005 Originally posted by tegteg Well i called her last nite after work and told me to call her back in 30min (i was just gettin in the shower and she was drving home) well i call her 45min later and the fone just rang. So i called again 5 min later again nothin. So i waited another 15min and called back but this time it went straight to her v-mail. I said well either your your turned off your fone or its dead. If ya still wanna talk ill be up late or call me tomarrow... I just fig. she didnt wanna talk. But again i was WRONG haha she txt me an hr and half later, saying sorry her fone died.... Just dont know why it took her so long to get back to me? Anywho it looks like im goin to take her up to my buds house to learn to snowboard... She asked me last nite if i would teach her i said sure, when? As soon as i can get time off she said... Soooo theres goin to be another chance agian and it will be alone besides my buddie..... Just not sure how to approch it.... Guess i should just let things ride eh? teggy Man u just call this woman three time in an hour and on the same day.......this is a bad sign on your part. You got to stop calling so much,cause all it is showing that are needy,clingry and desperate.......just play it cool for a while until u know for sure that this woman want you back..then go in for the kill......for now just lay back,stay calm,cool and collective. When you two do get back together you still need to play it cool.. Link to post Share on other sites
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