Iamyoungjuan Posted July 6, 2014 Share Posted July 6, 2014 As some of you know I posted here a few times about my wife leaving me and for the one that dont know the story.I been with my wife for 9 years and married for 5 we have 4 kids together two girls and two boys I wanna make some things clear I never cheated on my wife ever I take good care of her and our kids I even clean our whole house from top to bottom every morning so when she wakes up she wont have no cleaning to do I pay half of every bill we have and these are things that I love to do I jus love being a family man. Now my wife always leave after being home for 2 or 3 months to go stay with her mom or sister her reason for leaving is somtimes we argue or disagree we do not fight but is that a real reason to leave your home she always leave and say its over she dont wanna be with me nomore I always call and text and beg her to come home but she always say she dont wanna work it out she tired of going through this she tired of draggin the kids out from house to house but why are she faulting me for her leaving? Now she just left me five days ago now two days before she left i get a text from from her saying I love u baby with all my heart I dont know what I will do with you U take good care of our family and I wanna spend the rest of my life with you two days later her sister keep calling her asking her to borrow money so she can pay her bills because her sister lost her job and cant afford to pay her rent so she call my wife for help So my wife go over there to help her sister out but when she get over there she tell me that she dont wanna be with me anymore she not happy with me anymore so I ask her what am I doing wrong she say I always talk too much and ask her the amething over and over now am I wrong for thinking my wife left me because she rather go help her sister out We been together 9 yers years and she always does this and after a month and a half she wanna come back and work it out she havnt said anything about divorce she just said its over and stop calling and texting me Link to post Share on other sites
Author Iamyoungjuan Posted July 6, 2014 Author Share Posted July 6, 2014 I havn't heard from her since she left five days ago now I wake up from 8 missed calls and a text she said her her broke down at her job can I please call her back now I dont wanna call her back cause I fill like she trying to use me because she wasnt calling me at all now that her car is down she calling What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted July 6, 2014 Share Posted July 6, 2014 Does she have the kids with her? If so, get law enforcement involved next time she goes 'missing' with them. Start getting it documented now so you can get primary (or full) custody later, assuming you get tired of her games and divorce her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Iamyoungjuan Posted July 6, 2014 Author Share Posted July 6, 2014 Yeah she always take the kids with her Link to post Share on other sites
M30USA Posted July 6, 2014 Share Posted July 6, 2014 This woman has zero respect for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Iamyoungjuan Posted July 6, 2014 Author Share Posted July 6, 2014 I agree but I dont understand it I brake my back to make sure my family is good he put her sisters and mom before me it seems but they wont help her out when she in need Link to post Share on other sites
Author Iamyoungjuan Posted July 7, 2014 Author Share Posted July 7, 2014 Does it mean its really over if she no longer call or texts Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 Why? because you let her. Really, it is that simple. I don't know the whole story but something is wrong. Ir may be you, from your story it sounds like she is broken but the real question is how many times will you continue to let this happen. I see manipulation, childishness, maybe some family coaxing....regardless, this is NOT how marriage works. Sorry, every time her panties are in a wade it does not give her permission to act like that ad it certainly does not give her permission to take the kids. Man up...speak to law enforcement, a lawyer, a good persona counselor and a marriage counselor. Nothing will change unless you make it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Iamyoungjuan Posted July 7, 2014 Author Share Posted July 7, 2014 I been trying to call her I text her and told I her I lov her so much and I miss her but she only texted back I miss u too I cant eat or sleep without her I dont know why she dont wanna talk to me two days ago she told me she love me and will always be there for me and she will come spend some night with me but now she dont wanna talk to me at all what could have happen that fast Link to post Share on other sites
EverLastluv Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 I am sorry to hear this. You remind me so much of my fiance. He had a 9yr relationship with somone else but always leave the womant and go home to his sister and mom for a month or two them he would end up going back when he ready. They have a daughter together. We started to live together for a month, since we had our wedding planned. One day he went home from work to his mom and never came home back for the whole week he would not call or text by the following weekend when he called me begging to come back I already had his bag pack to drop it off for him to stay there. I have no problem he visit or sleep for a night but the next day be on ur way home back! How ever I find that the problem is with the mom / sis who have no respect for me, they should have call and say, hey whats going on why is he still there oh why dont you work it out what ever it is. Thant never the happen. SO he will live there for the rest of his live until his mom/sis have some respect for me. Even thought we get back together they never once pick up the phone and call me to say sorry. He can stay there for the rest of his life, I have not marriage in mind right now for us. Sorry ur wife is doing that to you, but its her mom /sis who is encouraging it and she loves them she would never see that what they doing is wrong. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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