noelly Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 (sorry if I make any mistakes, English isn't my first language) So I noticied that my bf (we're pretty young -18 years old- and dating for almost a year) is always looking and chatting in him cellphone since 3 days ago. And I know it's a girl because yesterday I saw him talking with her in facebook too. (She's more young -15/16 years old- and a friend from his cousin) The problem is I try to ignore jealousy really hard, he can talk with any girl friends, but I'm having anxiety attacks now, and I also have gastritis and is worsening. I'm shy which leads me to be introverted and don't talk too much, even more about my feelings. Which explains why I REALLY try ignore........ Today I was really bad, because I said about my anxiety (but not about the chatting) and he kept looking in cellphone and talking while I was really in pain and watching tv. Btw he was affectionate and planing what we're gonna do in our 1 year dating) * When I say he's looking at his phone, it's 5min in 5min * really * I already know about that girl friend but he isn't used to talk with her that much * I'm overrating? Should I talk to him? I don't know what to do because he's my first bf and I don't wanna sound a controllable gf. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2014 Share Posted July 7, 2014 What are they talking about? If it's innocent try to let it go. If it's flirting, talk to him. Don't yell but ask why he talks to her so much & tell him it hurts your feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author noelly Posted July 7, 2014 Author Share Posted July 7, 2014 I've no ideia, maybe I'm worrying for nothing. I'll see him today, and if he continues the chatting, I'll talk Link to post Share on other sites
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