Would you add someone that you didn't like on Facebook?

[senas33]

I'm sorry if this isn't the right section of the forums.

 

I'm curious if you hated someone or didn't like them, would you add them to your facebook? Well there is this girl I was talking to a while ago and we definitely liked each other.. I honestly couldn't mess up with her.. well ALMOST! I thought she was stringing me along, so I told her to delete my number from her phone. She was surprised and I'm sure her feelings were hurt. She told me to never text or call her again. Well anyway I tried to get over her by deleting my facebook(she was on mine). A few months back I signed up after 1 year of facebook. I added her and I greeted her ect. She has ignored me since the last day I texted her.

 

I've wished her happy birthday on her wall and she liked it. She didn't like all her birthday wishes. I know this seems like a lost cause but I'm thinking being presistant will pay off. I sent her a message once a month. My friend said I have nothing to lose, so why not. She knows some of my family members too.

 

Oh by the way she has told me numerous times in the past that she is stubborn/hard headed.

 

Thoughts?

 

thanks in advance

[senas33]

Any thoughts will be greatly appreciated.

[torturedartist]

I'm sorry if this isn't the right section of the forums.

 

I'm curious if you hated someone or didn't like them, would you add them to your facebook? Well there is this girl I was talking to a while ago and we definitely liked each other.. I honestly couldn't mess up with her.. well ALMOST! I thought she was stringing me along, so I told her to delete my number from her phone. She was surprised and I'm sure her feelings were hurt. She told me to never text or call her again. Well anyway I tried to get over her by deleting my facebook(she was on mine). A few months back I signed up after 1 year of facebook. I added her and I greeted her ect. She has ignored me since the last day I texted her.

 

I've wished her happy birthday on her wall and she liked it. She didn't like all her birthday wishes. I know this seems like a lost cause but I'm thinking being presistant will pay off. I sent her a message once a month. My friend said I have nothing to lose, so why not. She knows some of my family members too.

 

Oh by the way she has told me numerous times in the past that she is stubborn/hard headed.

 

Thoughts?

 

thanks in advance

 

I read your post and sat here thinking, how would we describe the story you shared with us? The story that involves absolutely no real-life time spent with someone, and 100% online, 1s and 0s, binary drama.

 

Are you a machine, dude? If things work out between you and this chick are you going to lose your e-virginity to her with facebook instant messenger?

 

For real, put your laptop down, get off the couch, and go have a real-life drama with a real person.

[senas33]

Sorry, no I have met and dated this girl. I'm not a machine. Thanks for the reply!

[senas33]

Hell we even had tea together at Starbucks before.

[SpiralOut]

I'm sorry if this isn't the right section of the forums.

 

I'm curious if you hated someone or didn't like them, would you add them to your facebook? Well there is this girl I was talking to a while ago and we definitely liked each other.. I honestly couldn't mess up with her.. well ALMOST! I thought she was stringing me along, so I told her to delete my number from her phone. She was surprised and I'm sure her feelings were hurt. She told me to never text or call her again. Well anyway I tried to get over her by deleting my facebook(she was on mine). A few months back I signed up after 1 year of facebook. I added her and I greeted her ect. She has ignored me since the last day I texted her.

 

She's not interested. If you regret what you did, you can give her an apology. After that, back off. If she's really as stubborn as she claims to be, the more you message her the more determined she could be to never speak to you again. You can show that you respect her by giving her the space she asked for.

[leavesonautumn]

Hell we even had tea together at Starbucks before.

 

Next step is obviously marriage!

 

You most likely have no chance of dating this girl again with the way things are going now. Being persistent online is not attractive, especially if she is not interested in you. It'll just turn her off.

 

What type of steps are you taking to date her? Have you asked if you can call her or meet up at Starbucks for more tea?

[senas33]

I'm going to back off. i just don't get why she added me but continues to ignore me.. What's the purpose? Thanks for not sugar coating your reply leavesonautumn. Maybe someone great will come along. I definitely learned from my mistake.

 

Thanks for the information SpiralOut.

[No Limit]

When I registered on Facebook it was during a time that my teachers pressured my fellow camerads to quit the bullying, so it was only logical that I'd accept their friend requests - no idea why they sent them in the first place though - to keep the peace.

 

But as soon as I was assigned to a new class, I kicked them all off my friendlist and blocked the two bullies. I don't want people I hate/dislike as well as strangers to have any part or information of my life. Not even my virtual life.

 

But that doesn't mean that she likes you. Three quarters of my friendlist on Facebook consists of people I haven't talked to in quite a while.

[serial muse]

I'm going to back off. i just don't get why she added me but continues to ignore me.. What's the purpose? Thanks for not sugar coating your reply leavesonautumn. Maybe someone great will come along. I definitely learned from my mistake.

 

Thanks for the information SpiralOut.

 

I think that she "liked" your bday wishes means she "forgives" you, for what that's worth - which, if you want to date her, probably isn't much. If she wanted more than to be cordial, she'd have responded.

[d0nnivain]

No I don't add people I don't like. Life's short. I don't have time for annoying people.

 

Some woman DH knew from high school who I found grating in person persistently tried to add me on FB. I kept hitting ignore. She started pestering my husband & some other mutual friends to get me to add her.

 

She later confronted me in person. At that point I told her to leave me alone. I explained that I didn't add random people that I didn't know IRL. Until she started acting like a lunatic I had been considering getting to know her but now that she has behaved so badly I didn't think we had enough in common to form a friendship. She stood there mouth agape as I walked away. I heard her ask somebody what just happened & silently chuckled when they replied "Donnivain just told you to F'off in the nicest possible way. Don't make her say it more bluntly." Haven't heard from her since.