will/could this lead anywhere?

[Eddy Street]

Okay, so I'm on Match and yesterday a girl who I find very cute liked my primary photo. So I looked at her profile yesterday and did nothing. Today she looked at my profile again so I went to it and liked one of her non-primary photos. I'm honestly interested but...

 

1. I don't know if it's appropriate on my part to show too much interest.

2. maybe she liked my photo because she thought it was cute, in the way a baby or a small puppy is cute.

3. maybe she liked my photo out of pity.

4. maybe she liked my photo by accident.

5. she only liked my primary photo, which could mean she didn't even bother to look at my full profile.

 

I'd like to send her a wink or some other indication that I am interested. Basically I don't know what to do and need some assistance.

 

I know this might seem silly to most of you here but people have to learn how to crawl before they can stand up and fall over.

Edited July 13, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[I am Bud]

Dear Eddy Street

 

If you do nothing then you will get nothing so you better do something before another guy beats you to it. You are doing everything that a shy introverted guy would do. Find a girl that you like and start speculating until the cows come home without taking any action.

 

You know what you need to do and you need to find the courage to do it. Think of it as practice. The more that you practice communicating with girls the more better you will get at it. For some it comes naturally for others it can be a learned skill.

 

In your case you are below the communication line so whatever interest you will show will never be too much. You have to reach that communication balance and then exceed it in order to be successful with girls (as well as with other people in society). As part of the male gene pool it is your duty to make a move. So go on and do it!

 

Good luck with it - Bud.

Edited July 14, 2014 by I am Bud