Sparksfly. Posted July 13, 2014 Share Posted July 13, 2014 I hate writing about my life online but I just really want to get some different and unbiased views on this situation. So there's this guy who I met online a few years ago through a game and we were both extremely competitive throughout which caused some arguments and bitching between us and one of our mutual friends. Anyway fast forwarding to about a year later and we become good friends (through our mutual friend again really, he introduced me into their group and I fitted in really well). Obviously now I've completely made myself at home in their friendship group and it's like we've been friends forever, and one of the other guys in our circle decides to have a meet-up between about 4-5 of us (which went amazing, we've got another date planned to do it again soon). Now this original guy (the first one I spoke about in the game) and I hit it off so well, he's super cute, genuinely lovely and we really bonded/clicked while we were together irl and have become close friends. Anyway he's supposed to be gay which I obviously accept (although he has had sex before with GIRLS and has also had a gf), but he's doesn't always come across as that confident about his sexuality. I'd say he seems about 70% gay personally and I hate when people identify others' sexuality so closely, but I'm curious in this instance. He also has said he's not bothered about sex at all (I am asexual too btw) and he just wants cuddles in a relationship etc. When we got drunk he made some comments (which could just be throwaway ones and the drink talking and all that but idk) about how "perfect" I was and how he'd marry me and I'm "literally incredible". He also said that Taylor Swift ft. Ed Sheeran's song "Everything Has Changed" resembles us (but this could just be in a jokey way idk) and plenty of other hint type things, also we've been a bit flirty like shipping our names together but obviously not in a serious way. Then for the past couple of days I've mentioned a bit about this other guy I met (who's also in our friendship group) and he was asking if I'd "fallen out of love with him and moved onto the other guy?" but once again I don't know whether to take that seriously or not. Sorry if this is confusing but I just want to hear anybody else's take on this. Link to post Share on other sites
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preraph Posted July 13, 2014 Share Posted July 13, 2014 Your friend who likes cuddles and compliments you a lot is definitely gay. At least my gay guy friends always gushed about how I looked, way more than straight guys ever do. The other guy is trying to find out if you are available in a teasing way. If you like him, suggest you two go do something together. Link to post Share on other sites
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