somebodysomeone Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 hello, a big relationship problem has come up for me, see theres this girl at school i like, we're both in year 12 but we dont share any classes and we dont know each other at all but i see her at school but i dont know what to do. thats part of the problem, the other part is that this is actually my second attempt at college, a few years ago i tried year 11 but quickly gave up because i found it too difficult but last year i tried again and flew through it(with much harder subjects btw) so now im in my final year. but back then i weighed nearly 100kg and didnt see it possible for me to talk to any of the popular girls that i would have liked, now though is different, i weigh about 74kg, eat right, workout regularly and generally tonned up but since i left school the first time i gradually lost all my friends and when i went back i was like a whole new me minus any friends but because of that i dont know how people percieve me, so i dont know weather i have a chance with any of the girls i like or more specifically just one girl. sometimes pretty good looking girls sit next to me in class and i even got a love letter last week but im not really sure, i can be very sociable when i choose to be as well. so any advice on how to approach this girl i like? i thought maybe making some friends that might know her so i can interact within her circle, thats the only idea i can think of. i mean i just cant walk up to her and start hitting on her, that would freak any girl out having a complete stranger start hitting on you out of nowhere. p.s. ive been told many times that i dont look my age and people think im much younger like 17/18 not 20 so i dont think age is an issue. Link to post Share on other sites
Simply Poetic Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 one word: CONFIDENCE!!! Forget how other people see you!! Man you said you toned up!! It never hurt to "accidently" run into someone! And make some new friends!! Sometimes your friends can help you hook up with someone! The Buddy System! Don't be the creepy stranger! Be the mysterious handsome stranger! Link to post Share on other sites
AMBOMB Posted February 27, 2005 Share Posted February 27, 2005 Rule number 1 for dealing with girls: Never let a girl know you like her until she lets you know she likes you. If you want to talk to her, find something to ask her a question about. Maybe she's wearing a distinctive article of clothing or has an interesting piece of jewelry. After that, only talk to her again if she talks to you again and let her initiate the next converstation. Link to post Share on other sites
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