snoop_dawg22 Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 OMG! I am so confused. He tells me a couple of weeks ago that he wanted me to go with him and his family to Vegas next month. I happily accepted, thinking that hey, we're going somewhere her. Boy oh boy. Lately we've been spending a lot of time together and I'll say little things regarding "our relationship" the response. "You can do what you want to do." He pisses the hell out of me sometimes. It is not good to be confused. So I'm wondering should I join the guy ( that still considers me an ex ) to Vegas? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Oh that outta be interesting...him in Vegas with no commitment? That's asking for trouble! If he wants you there, why can't he commit to you? Link to post Share on other sites
sundrop Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 I agree with Tiki, Las Vegas is for Luva's....... But I'm not sure why someone would ask you to go if they didn't want you there. especially on a fun trip like to Vegas..... Have you asked him what his intentions are? I would be affraid to go and then get out there and be all by myself..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted February 21, 2005 Author Share Posted February 21, 2005 I know. I'm worried that when we get there... off he goes. But I've asked what's up ( in so many words ) he says we're just being "us" as in WHAT? He's really confusing me. I look and say hey, he invited me, cool. But then hey, he still considers me his ex. What to do. I really would love to go to Vegas ( and with him ). I think deep down I feel that by us experiencing our first trip to Vegas together will bring us closer? I don't know. My head hurts!! Link to post Share on other sites
sundrop Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 My head would hurt to if I had to think about this..... How long have been broken up? Was it mutual, a good break up or ugly? I'm just asking cause I don't know...I'm not sure what to tell you... I wish I knew.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted February 21, 2005 Author Share Posted February 21, 2005 We were together for 3 yrs. Been broken up since Sept. We celebrated Christmas, New Year's Eve, and Valentine's Day. We act as if we're a couple but I don't know what exactly he wants. I try and try to ask but I get nothing. I think if I turn down the trip he'd take it as if I'm turning him down. I think I should just do what's best for me... if I only knew what that was...? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Are you willing to go to Vegas and face the repurcussions of what could happen if he decides to act like a single guy? Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted February 21, 2005 Author Share Posted February 21, 2005 Good question. I don't think I'd be able to handle that. I would only hope that he'd have enough respect for me and acknowledge that he did invite me to come along. I just wonder why he wants me to come. Link to post Share on other sites
sundrop Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Honestly, it sounds like he is having his cake and eating it to.... You are there when he wants you to be and then he can go play when he wants to.... Trust me was there last summer and not a good place to be, messes with your head bad, and you have to start the healing process over and over again..... My boyfriend and I broke up in July, I would go over when he called about every two weeks, and it would be great and then when I asked him "does this mean we are going to try to work things out and get back together?" he wouldn't give me a straight answer. After about two months of letting him string me along, I said no more.... Then about a month later we got back together after I started doing my own thing.... Now 4 months later I screwed up caused a big fight and we are broken up again.... But anyway..... Don't let him play head games with you.. You need to take care of you... Don't be at his beak and call or he will always expect it... Take your self respect back.. Vegas would be great but would you really enjoy it?? Or would you be like I would have been and worry the whole time.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted February 22, 2005 Author Share Posted February 22, 2005 We have been through the times where I would do NC and it would last for about a week. It would end w/him showing up at my house. He is always the one making contact. We see each other about 6 days out of the week. I think now I need to limit the amout of time I spend with him. B/C I'm getting to close again and I don't want to be hurt. I've also made up stories about me having a date just to prove to him that I am not going to wait on him. I've told him this and he says he doesn't expect me too. But then turns around and says... but I'm not seeing anyone and you are the only one for me. It's so confusing. It's like I think he's hiding his true feelings and then he wants to be cold in that it will make me back off. Link to post Share on other sites
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