thinker Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 WHOEVER SAID SIZE DOES MATTER?... I am talking about HEIGHT. Mainly a question for the guys here: Would you go out with a girl if she was taller than you?... Obviously this depends on a number of other factors, e.g. good looking, personality. Really what I want to know is would you APPROACH a girl much taller than you in the first place?... I am rather on the tall side, but I'm not complaining, don't mind being on the leggy side! Met up a couple of times with a guy (smaller than me). He asked for my number in the first place and has done all the chasing. However, until recently he has been distant. It does not bother me in the slightest and is NOT an issue for me at all. I really like him , thought he liked me, I am so confused because we have so much in common and get on really well together. Maybe he is embarrassed to be seen with me? It is only recently I have been wondering whether or not my height has put him off me?... Don't know if he feels I am looking down on him?... Just wondered what you guys thought, girls and guys perspectives please, I am really confused and sad, as we get on so well together and have lots in common. Link to post Share on other sites
st8toftheheart Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Hmmmm.... My girlfriend is shorter than me, but loves to wear heals. And it bugs the crap out of me, even though I think she looks hot. But if she were actually taller than me shoes off, I couldn't do it, would have never even got involved. For me its purely the sexual undertones. Some guys are always worried about the size of their member, including me. So to be sexual with a women who is taller, I would feel somewhat diminutive being with her, and therefore feel undersized in other areas. To prove a point, I refused to be in a bridal party because my partner was taller than me with her heals on. They had to cut her heals down. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by st8toftheheart To prove a point, I refused to be in a bridal party because my partner was taller than me with her heals on. They had to cut her heals down. Wow. Sounds like a major complex to me! I'm a girl and height has never mattered to me. Of course, you'd be hard pressed to find a whole lot of men shorter than 5'4". Link to post Share on other sites
st8toftheheart Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by savethedrama4yrmama Wow. Sounds like a major complex to me! Yup. I don't deny that. Mind you that incident happened in my youth. I obviously tolerate it better now....just. I know its a matter of insecurity, as I'm sure most people will agree, and its a tough thing getting over insecurity when it comes to relationship and sex. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by thinker Would you go out with a girl if she was taller than you?... no, but then again i am 5'11" and 6' with shoes on . I love my women to wear those sexy 4" heels so i could not date a woman over 5'8" or so. but few are taller than that so i am good ta go. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Yeah, I have a pair of 6" stilettoes I wear from time to time, and my ex hated them! They made me 5'10" and he is 5"7. Link to post Share on other sites
Podna Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Originally posted by thinker I am talking about HEIGHT. Mainly a question for the guys here: Would you go out with a girl if she was taller than you?... Yeah I would, no problem. I have to admit though; I take some ribbing from my friends because I am what they call, “an equal opportunity dater.” So long as the woman has a nice attitude, isn’t burned out on life, and has a seductive way about her, she’s in. My initial visual preference is short and busty. That being said, the best lay I ever had, was with an older, taller and heavier woman. Wow, she was crazy. I’m only 5’10” so I am not what you would call a colossus. Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Would you go out with a girl if she was taller than you?... The length of a girl would not have bothered me at all. I am 5'10", so it is true most girls are shorter than I am. I have actually been rejected once because the girl I asked for a date would not date shorter men. So that's a yes from me then. Link to post Share on other sites
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