Mrblonde89 Posted July 16, 2014 Share Posted July 16, 2014 One of my ex's friends is on Plenty of Fish I always thought this girl was pretty even while dating my ex . But my ex has most likely ruined my name in the eyes of her friends . How do I go about flirting with her with all the stuff my ex has said ? Link to post Share on other sites
daisydook Posted July 16, 2014 Share Posted July 16, 2014 You don't. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
I am Bud Posted July 16, 2014 Share Posted July 16, 2014 Dear Mrblonde89 You should take into account that you could potentially be ruining a friendship if you are set on this path. Are you sure this is really what you want to do? I believe that it is not nice of your ex or to talk badly about you even though it may or may not be warranted depending on what you did or did not do to her. I believe that her friend would be intelligent enough to make up her own mind as to whether she wants anything to do with you and you will get your just desserts depending on the type of person that you are. If I was in your shoes i would try to bump into her naturally and see whether she wants to rip your head off or would be willing to hear you out. If there is no other way but the website then I would suggest not even flirting and just talking to her normally. Just say Hi <her name> can I have a chat to you and then have a chat to her briefly about what happened between you and her friend and gauge her reaction. If she responds negatively then you can forget about it but if she says that she tries not to get involved or is neutral on the topic then there might be a chance. Regards -Bud Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts