Suggestions

[Paulie]

Well...I'm meeting lots of ladies, lately. I just find myself not being attracted to many of them at all. I live in a major US city, and there are DOZENS of college campuses around my area. I'm in my 20's, and would love to meet some of these ladies OUT OF the bar-setting, but am looking for ways to do this without looking like a stalker.

 

I have alot of take-home work to do lately, and have been doing this in the library of one of the local colleges, but have found it's not quite as easy to initiate conversation in a library as it is in a bar...it's not quite as accepted or natural to approach a stranger in a library (and again, I don't want to come off as a freak).

 

Any suggestions on how to meet some of these nice girls that might not frequent the college bars? There's just a TON of beautiful girls at some of these colleges, but they all seem to be so walled-up...I think of the number of them that I see out at the bars, compared to the total population of college kids, and it's really only a minority that frequent the bars.

 

Where do they go, and how can I try to meet some of them in a natural, healthy way? To any ladies that might be reading this, where do you go?

[ashesmum]

Have you tried getting outside? I don't know where you're from but I'm sure you're college kids do stuff outdoors. WHat about a beach, lake, or favorite swim hole? Or how about movies, restaurants, and coffee shops? Do you have friends to hang out with? That might help (can't be a stalker if it's a gang of you going out). How about taking a couple classes? Not only do you get to meet new people, but you get to enjoy something interesting to you.

Well...I'm meeting lots of ladies, lately. I just find myself not being attracted to many of them at all. I live in a major US city, and there are DOZENS of college campuses around my area. I'm in my 20's, and would love to meet some of these ladies OUT OF the bar-setting, but am looking for ways to do this without looking like a stalker. I have alot of take-home work to do lately, and have been doing this in the library of one of the local colleges, but have found it's not quite as easy to initiate conversation in a library as it is in a bar...it's not quite as accepted or natural to approach a stranger in a library (and again, I don't want to come off as a freak).

 

Any suggestions on how to meet some of these nice girls that might not frequent the college bars? There's just a TON of beautiful girls at some of these colleges, but they all seem to be so walled-up...I think of the number of them that I see out at the bars, compared to the total population of college kids, and it's really only a minority that frequent the bars. Where do they go, and how can I try to meet some of them in a natural, healthy way? To any ladies that might be reading this, where do you go?

[Tony T]

I have no idea why I just never had this problem. I always had way more girls than I knew what to do with...way, way more. And I never considered myself all that great looking. Of course, I was real good with the challenge thing. I was cool and aloof.

 

The very best, most marvelous way, to meet a ton of women...more than you will ever want in your lifetime...is to befriend a girl. Walk up to her outside the library, anywhere on campus, at a sporting event, or wherever and just make friends with her. Don't ask her out, don't even imply anything. It's actually better if she's average looking or below. They always have many great looking friends.

 

Once you make this friend, she'll introduce you to her friends, who will in turn introduce you to their friends...and it just keeps going and going. Then you just get to pick which one you want. You get to go places and do things with big groups of great looking women. Well, that's how it worked for me.

 

People wondered what it was about me. It was just the strategy, that's all. And it worked great.

 

You have just got to use creativity and imagination. Everytime you go out to meet ladies, just think of yourself as Picasso, Einstein, Kennedy, Cruise, etc. all wrapped up into one person. You can't go wrong with that attitude.

[girl's view]

dammit, you live too far away for me....

Well...I'm meeting lots of ladies, lately. I just find myself not being attracted to many of them at all. I live in a major US city, and there are DOZENS of college campuses around my area. I'm in my 20's, and would love to meet some of these ladies OUT OF the bar-setting, but am looking for ways to do this without looking like a stalker. I have alot of take-home work to do lately, and have been doing this in the library of one of the local colleges, but have found it's not quite as easy to initiate conversation in a library as it is in a bar...it's not quite as accepted or natural to approach a stranger in a library (and again, I don't want to come off as a freak).

 

Any suggestions on how to meet some of these nice girls that might not frequent the college bars? There's just a TON of beautiful girls at some of these colleges, but they all seem to be so walled-up...I think of the number of them that I see out at the bars, compared to the total population of college kids, and it's really only a minority that frequent the bars. Where do they go, and how can I try to meet some of them in a natural, healthy way? To any ladies that might be reading this, where do you go?