christian87 Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 My Ex girlfriend dumped me 3 months ago we were together for 4 years we lived together for 2. Long story short she dumped me because she said I wasnt there for her emotionally and wasn't very supportive, but that's all bull. I did all the dumb stuff and tried to get her back and she led me on for 2 weeks only to find out she was messing with my head. She got into another relationship I found out because while she was leading me on I called her phone and she had a guy answer her phone who later she told me was her boyfriend. I felt so bad and stupid that I did not see coming sooner, so she told me to leave her alone and that it be best if moved on. So I did leave her alone I stopped contacting her. During that time I was angered, confused and all around lost. A few weeks later she began texting me about how much she misses me and that she still loves me and she regrets the break up. I never replied with the same things she was telling me or did I ever remind her of what she had did and told me to leave her alone. So one day she lied to me told me she was single and if we could talk I agreed she apologized and cried and told me how sorry she was and that she did not want it to be this way. We ended up having sex she slept over the weekend, when I went to go give her her stuff she had left I saw her with her boyfriend. Up until now she keeps insisting that she still loves me and misses me and would like to work things out again but she's still with her boyfriend, I ignore all the text. Then she tells me if i want her to leave me alone she will I don't get it she has a boyfriend and she has to ask me that question? She even wants to come over and sleep the weekends sometimes and have sex. Has anybody been through a similar situation? Link to post Share on other sites
JimmyWeezy Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 The currently boyfriend let her down in ways u never did or the sex isn't as good or she thought of you in a positive way (which is usually NOT happening when the break up happens) Link to post Share on other sites
Ben Dover Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 This chick as cold as ice man. Weird to think how somebody we loved and cared about so much could actually be capable of doing such terrible things huh? She's using you man. She's trying to get the D from two guys at once. What a gal. Feel terrible for new man as I'm sure he's clueless. This happened to me once. Cut her off as soon as I found out she was dating someone. Truth is she's not really into him so she wants to know that if she ends things with him that you're a sure thing for her once she ends it. Chick has serious issues. Think about if ya get back with her and things start getting rough for you two, she'll have someone else lined up once she dumps you. She'll do this to you too. Link to post Share on other sites
marcjb Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 She probably made a bunch of excuses to dump you, but the real she had GIGS and left you for this current guy. She realized she made a mistake and regrets it after the honey moon phase wore off. Don't give this girl the time of day. She does not deserve anything from you, do not respond to anything at all from this point forward. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 She's lying with everything she says. Go NC and see that it stays that way, don't give her a chance to contact you anymore. And to heat things up a bit you could send her texts to her new guy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 The girl is burning the candle at both ends and if it was me, I would let her boyfriend know what happened and what she said then the both of you can tell her to eat $h!t and walk away. Maybe she'll wise up and get the idea that the world doesn't revolve around her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mightycpa Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 I don't get it she has a boyfriend and she has to ask me that question? She even wants to come over and sleep the weekends sometimes and have sex. Has anybody been through a similar situation? I have, and for about 6 months, I was happy to help her cheat on her bf's. But when I got the offer, I was already over her. It was a lot easier to say YES then, and not have to worry about the emotional repercussions. That doesn't sound like you, so I wouldn't do it yet. Let me explain her behavior to you: She definitely likes you, or she wouldn't offer to sleep with you. But she doesn't love you, or she wouldn't be banging the both of you (she doesn't love him either). You also can't assume that there is only you and the boyfriend. She's just being a little slutty, that's all. One day, somebody's going to come along and replace the both of you. Link to post Share on other sites
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