Mysterio Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 I have a child hood male friend named J. He has a 17 yr old son. He never married the mother. He is seperated from his wife of 2 yrs. They are not getting back together and are playing the usual You Pay for the Divorce. Now the Son is anorexic. J met his new GF T and she has to go back to another town to care for a relative. Now J wants to go there see what its like and move there. I think its selfish for J to leave his son who is going through this disorder for a new life. I feel like I should say something. Do any of you think its selfish, and possibly damaging to the child for the father should leave him like this. Or do you think he should leave. Set things up and then send for his son to at least spend the summer when he graduates. They are doing something for the son. I just think that J is not thinking straight. It should not matter to me. Yet I don't want to see the son go down a dark path do to his disorder and his father leaving. Link to post Share on other sites
TigerLilly78 Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 As long as the father stays in constant communication and visits him often then I see no prob in this. The son will notice if dads not happy kids pick up on that stuff believe me. I wished my parents had moved apart seeing them go at it wasn't fun. And maybe the new town would be a positive escape for the boy you never know... Link to post Share on other sites
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