Smilecharmer Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 Isn't she married anyway? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 20, 2014 Author Share Posted July 20, 2014 Isn't she married anyway? It don't matter now it's done. I'm putting it behind me. Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 Also why can't some just be honest Isn't she married anyway? Well if it's correct that she was married, then the hope for honesty seems odd. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 20, 2014 Author Share Posted July 20, 2014 Well if it's correct that she was married, then the hope for honesty seems odd. I guess but she got mad because I checked her on her BS Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 20, 2014 Author Share Posted July 20, 2014 I plan on making that my last relationship of that type. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 I plan on making that my last relationship of that type. You should have made that plan a long time ago. I thought you were done with married women? I'd imagine the difficulty was even more pronounced. (not to make light of your plight, but a pertinent question). Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2014 Author Share Posted July 21, 2014 You should have made that plan a long time ago. I thought you were done with married women? I'd imagine the difficulty was even more pronounced. (not to make light of your plight, but a pertinent question). Honestly I was horny woman I was with that was single won't doing anything so me and this woman had a deal. It ended up being more when she got feelings. A lot of it is that usually the husband reminds me of guy that gave me a hard time during my struggles with dating so it's kind of like a revenge thing but I'm over that. Plus I seem to attract them for some reason and all are coworkers Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2014 Author Share Posted July 21, 2014 I know some of you are like I'm scum for talking to married women. Well that's my first experiences. I kind of developed a take what I can get mentality but I've been working to change that. Reading a lot of book and articles. I'm starting to really work on being a better man. I know one user talked about women not wanting me for my past and all I got to say is I won't lose any sleep or feel bad for it one bit. That is there preference Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted July 21, 2014 Share Posted July 21, 2014 It is that dating married women is in the past but doing that is only going to destroy your trust in women. People who date others who are already married usually have very cynical attitudes towards the opposite sex which will not help you in finding a healthy relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 21, 2014 Author Share Posted July 21, 2014 It is that dating married women is in the past but doing that is only going to destroy your trust in women. People who date others who are already married usually have very cynical attitudes towards the opposite sex which will not help you in finding a healthy relationship. I will admit I do have certain views about the opposite sex but its from the years of rejection and getting the run around. I never really dated until I was 25 and that first date was with a woman that I later on find out was a prostitute. I dated the single women and was the caring guy and waited for them instead of pushing for sex and got nothing. Hey so I refuse to wait. Link to post Share on other sites
M30USA Posted July 21, 2014 Share Posted July 21, 2014 I recall hearing of a survey (not sure how scientific) which asked women to rate the sexiness of various men in photographs. In general the men who had smiles were seen as less sexy than the ones with stern, strong faces. Of course, this is merely about "sexiness". When a woman wants to have kids and needs a supply of income, her needs change and she'd be more likely to pick the smiling (ie, weak and unsexy) man who is more stable. It's all biology. We are merely puppets in a biological script. Link to post Share on other sites
FoolishMan Posted July 21, 2014 Share Posted July 21, 2014 (edited) I concur with the OP on this on this! I am naturally an attentive individual and I cannot help but care if I feel for a woman. I feel that this is usually is my undoing when it comes to women! My recent experience with a lady is that she will come to me for advice and if they need to get something off her chest or feeling down etc. I always tend to follow up a day or so after listening to her to see how she is. However, I am just considered a nice guy... Safe I suppose. She went straight for a guy she considered to whoo her and is good looking (although I don't consider myself a munter). It really broke my heart but I cannot change who I am. She has also admitted that the men she has been with treat her badly.... Go figure Edited July 21, 2014 by FoolishMan Link to post Share on other sites
Author joystickd Posted July 22, 2014 Author Share Posted July 22, 2014 (edited) Funny thing is after its all over with I'm not upset especially after finding out she was trying to talk to someone I was cool with. I feel nothing after hearing it. Sluts will be sluts I guess. I say that because she brought so much drama with her. Hell I even ran the risk of getting sued behind her BS. This whole situation got me doing some serious thinking about how I do a lot of things Edited July 22, 2014 by joystickd Link to post Share on other sites
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