Chewbacca Posted July 22, 2014 Share Posted July 22, 2014 First of all thanks for reading. (Please read link below about my story) https://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/486264-where-did-i-go-wrong I posted in other forum about how my future LDR relationship failed, and the outcome was that I was depressed and felt lonely I tried to get into an LDR with a girl who was younger than me by two years, we are both in our late teens. We spoke for months on end and I loved every minute of it, because it made me feel happy and I wanted someone who needed more confidence and felt comfortable about love. However, it didn't work out. Then, I became depressed, lonely, very bad memories came back etc, meaning that my approach into exams to qualify for university was weak and motivation was hard to input. I lost a friend who I thought could become my future wife if everything went successfully, but it didn't, and now I feel a girl like her won't come again. The main issue: She said she really wanted to like me, and needed time to be ready, so I gave her 3 months whilst talking every day. Then, she lead me on and said she wouldn't be able to cope (story continues on link) Anyway, I felt really sad because I thought I helped a pretty, smart girl to feel happy and special, have someone close to her, and hopefully be a brilliant couple. I would have been just happy to be close friends, but she appeared to want me but appeared scared at the same time. I tried to do everything I could but it didn't work out. Then, I lost my confidence, felt empty and lonely after concentrating on someone without concentrating on myself as much. 5 months that turned into hell, and I regret starting to talk to her. Aims/Help: - I wish to be still friends with her, nothing more, someone I can speak to at home. - How to stop focussing on other people's problems instead of my own. - The transition of an older teen boy to a young man - How to be 'me' again and focus on my future career. Thanks for your time! Link to post Share on other sites
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