mit a new guy .. friend vs. boyfriend ?

[jiji_91]

hello

hope this is in the right place

well I dont know how to start first of all I mit this guy online but I was suprized that I never seen him before since we have sooo much friends in commen and we go to the same hangout places !

also he is very good looking and from what I see from FB and ask.fm girls throw themselves at him.. they would stalk him.. chase him.. beg for attention ? #weird

so I guess he is use to getting chased

 

anyways its been good we've been talking alot all day says gd morning and good night .. compliments me and flirting alot ..we kindda starting to talk sexy, like he would say I wish you were next to me and stuff ,

lol but I am trying not to go too sexual, we didnt go to deep, I didnt allow it, he understood .. but still sometimes he is like your are hot I wanna be next to you the other moment he would be like aah am single and lonely ?

hello am here lol

 

but the problem is with in me ! my friends said it and I refused to admit but its true I get too attached ! too soon and unfortunately men tend to break my heart and since we started flirting my heart is being a bad heart and crushing too soon ..

 

1- so my question is how do I get him to get attached to me but not me getting too involved emotionally before I know for sure that he is interested in me..

2- how do I know if he likes me or just like a friend ?

 

I've been stuck in the friendzone before and I think this guy is doing the same but am not sure ! men are complicated I can never understand

 

3- also I'm scared that he is a player..

 

I Asked my guy friend about him he told me he is a great guy but have many many female friends and am jealous would that change if he commit to me ?

 

4- when should he normaly ask for a date and how to know if its a date or hangout ? do guys like to meet first in groups then to date or what ?

 

 

btw I only had one boyfriend in my life even though I'm 23

so I am new to this dating world

I just want to start this thing right

please help and sorry if this is too messy

Edited July 22, 2014 by jiji_91