moo Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 ok i'm moo, i'm new, i feel like poo my story, after reading this forum for a few months i finally got the guts to end it with my mm, after a years relationship, which i tried to end lots of times. this time its for real, its been about 3 weeks, thing is he is so cold to me since like he hates me, and i feel like poo, i tried to speak to him to just be friendly and last night he just blanked me, completely blanked me on one hand i feel like well at least thats told me straight and now i can just get over him on the other hand i feel like i want answers that im just not gonna get some of you will prob say, if he is blanking you that kind of answers alot i guess it does and it makes me feel very very bad tell me, how can i get my dignity back? how can i stop myself trying to talk to him? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted February 23, 2005 Share Posted February 23, 2005 Get on with your life. Cease all contact with him. It's the best thing you can do. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
moo Posted February 24, 2005 Share Posted February 24, 2005 I did reply but it disappeared. Thanks tiki, It's just so hard. I don't want to ignore somebody I actually care about. I was trying to be friends, but it's obviously not what he wants. I can respect this, except that ... well ... where do my feelings come in? Can't he even say sorry? What was I to him? Link to post Share on other sites
LadyRLD Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 He treats you like that because he knows it will make you chase him. An MM who cheats is use to treating women like objects and like crap. He knows that hooks a woman everytime because it lives her guessing and wanting to chase him. So here's what you do. Play the same game. But take it to another level. Don't ever, ever speak to him again. Don't even look at him. Stop chasing him. He is not worth you feeling bad about yourself. Don't give him that power. He is meaningless to you from now on. He's just another messed up man that you should be thanking God you didin't end up with. Start treating yourself like a Queen that way no man would ever be allowed to treat you like a peasant ever again. You can do it Moo. Link to post Share on other sites
moo Posted February 27, 2005 Share Posted February 27, 2005 i am doing it LadyRLD Link to post Share on other sites
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