DazedandConfused8 Posted July 27, 2014 Share Posted July 27, 2014 I’ve been single for a few months now. I’ve been using internet dating and had a few dates here and there, nothing serious though. I’ve basically done some searching/outreach and categorized those looking for hook ups/NSA (immediate) and those looking for relationship potential (longer term). I found one girl who has been quite forward in wanting NSA. Whatever, no problem, that’s what I contacted her for. We’ve been talking for about three weeks between instant messages and texting. At first I didn’t think anything of it, but more recently I’ve started having questions about how legit this is. If this is how she’s speaking to me, is she doing the same with 2, 5, 10, or 20 other guys? It’s none of my business to ask, but at the same time, shouldn’t I also make sure this is safe and that I’m not taking someone’s sloppy seconds or 20ths? Do I really have any need to know if these are just casual hook ups? Maybe I’m just over thinking this? Link to post Share on other sites
notserene Posted July 27, 2014 Share Posted July 27, 2014 I would assume that a woman interested in NSA sex, who makes that known, has plenty of offers. It's up to her to decide how many she accepts. I am sure that you are taking steps to protect yourself physically. I am wondering if you're really happy with this type of arrangement or if you'd rather be working towards something exclusive. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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